Posted 25 June 2010 - 11:25 PM
I'm really hurt.
I want my Mom to be there, but I really don't even think she cares. When I mentioned that to her she said that she wants to be there and that I should "chill I have tons of time" and "summer is only so long (she wants to enjoy it)". The oddest part is I'm VERY close with my Mom. We talk all the time and I tell her everything. I'm seriously asking for a Saturday afternoon, is that too much?
She mentioned to my sister many times that "she didn't care about her wedding" (she got married super young, and divorced soon after we were born). She doesn't seem to 'get' that this is a big deal to me...
My younger sister is outraged on my behalf and thinks we should just go the two of us (or with my other 2 bridesmaids). I've honestly reached a point where I'd be fine with that but I don't want to hurt my Mom in the process, you know?
Posted 25 June 2010 - 11:40 PM
Posted 25 June 2010 - 11:59 PM
Posted 26 June 2010 - 12:10 AM
summer may only be 4 months a year, but your only going to be a bride once in a life time. Live it up girl!
Edit...Oh and make sure you guys go out to lunch afterwords so you can hear all about how amazing you look in the dress and how crazy you are going to make your FI! <3 Its your day!
Posted 26 June 2010 - 04:32 PM
My sister and I were going to go the beach today but since it was raining we decided to head downtown and do some shopping. We found my dress!! Sample sale $599 for a $1050 dress. Love it. Hopefully my mom doesn't take offense... *sigh*
Posted 27 June 2010 - 10:53 AM
Posted 27 June 2010 - 11:02 AM
Posted 27 June 2010 - 12:03 PM
I did end up talking to my Mom and letting her know that I found it. Honestly, like I said, she's like my best friend and I talk to her almost everyday (that was one of the big reasons this hurt so much). She was upset. She let me know that she had really wanted to come, and I told her that she really didn't show it and it really hurt me. She thought that I went out to get a dress to get "revenge" on her.
Either way, after a long argument over the phone, not to mention my sister talking to her, she finally calmed down and sent me a few text messages while I was at work letting me know that she was sorry for hurting me and giving the impression that she didn't care, and that she wanted to come in on Tuesday, take the day off and see the dress (and that she may cry).
So yah, after a heated evening, everything is good.
I'm starting thinking she's in the early stages of menopause... wow.
Posted 27 June 2010 - 04:11 PM
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