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Leave as guest or make a bridesmaid?

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#11 bediva33

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    Posted 08 August 2010 - 05:45 PM

    I wouldn't ask her.

    #12 Ayslinn

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      Posted 08 August 2010 - 06:35 PM

      I wouldn't either.  In the end it's your day and your wedding, and I think that she probably understands the situation already and knows that she doesn't know you that well.  She probably doesn't expect you to ask her, so no pressure. 

      #13 hzak1203

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        Posted 09 August 2010 - 06:24 AM

        I wouldn't ask her.  I am sure she knows that she is going there as a guest.  If you feel bad, maybe add another reading or have her do the reading instead of her husband.  It is ultimately your day and your bridesmaids are there for you because they have been there for you through your life:)

        #14 Josie1073

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          Posted 09 August 2010 - 10:04 AM

          well, ladies, I have not asked her, and I am glad I have not...turns out this couple hasn't even booked yet.  They do have some time though (less than 4 months to go now but I have a feeling they won't book).  So, now we are down to just 2 others coming with us, just as we thought from the beginning...


          Thanks for all of your input!

          #15 Valentine_Baby

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            Posted 09 August 2010 - 10:12 AM

            Originally Posted by msjulie5475 

            I don't think she expects to be apart of the wedding.

            I agree with msjulie - she probably doesnt expect it because she is getting the same feelings as you - don't really know each other.

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