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Is it just me???

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#11 MysTea

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    Posted 20 June 2010 - 08:04 PM

    LOL.... I was actually asked by my FI if I was getting cold feet because i have such a short fuse with his annoying A$$..LOL....You are def. not the only one feeling this way. I dont want to run but I do at times want to do this...

    He has also taken to telling people Im a bridezilla....Humph.....
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    #12 sungoddess_08

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      Posted 21 June 2010 - 11:19 AM

      I went through this too a few months ago!! But since our legal day I have been so happy, it's a great feeling to know you are married!! next week is our wedding ceremony and I'm just looking forward to that! It goes away -- don't worry! :)

      #13 carolina24

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        Posted 21 June 2010 - 11:26 AM

        i agree...no gifts for non attending guests!!! lol

        #14 knitgirl13

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          Posted 21 June 2010 - 11:51 AM

          Mine doesn't annoying me and he's great, but I'm still scared too. I'm not scared about it being forever or growing apart, i'm just scared of getting hurt.

          #15 Thomasjsgirl

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            Posted 21 June 2010 - 12:04 PM

            BIG case of cold feet, and perfectly normal!! I know of couples who bickered right up to the day of, and once it was all over and done with, sat back and laughed at how overly-sensitive they were about the other. You've already made the biggest decision in life, and that was having two children with your FI. Because of your children, you will be a part of each other's lives forever, so you see, you're stuck with him already (lol) and therefore there isn't much more to be afraid of now is there?
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            #16 meldal101010

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              Posted 21 June 2010 - 05:54 PM

              Bahahaha...stuck with him forever

              Heh heh...just kidding. I love the big goofball & there is noone i would rather have annoy me for the rest of my life.....HEY!! Maybe i should say that in my vows..lol

              #17 phaat

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                Posted 21 June 2010 - 05:57 PM

                I agree with some of the other posts...maybe it's just wedding stress...

                #18 Hopelesslyblissful

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                  Posted 22 June 2010 - 08:24 PM

                  I think this is completely normal. Afew months ago I had the same feeling. All of a sudden it became VERY real. We've been together for 4.5 years, lived together for 4 years and I love him to death...BUT the idea that there was no turning back..this was the guy I was going to be with for the rest of my life, and the man I wanted to be the father of my children...and it made me want to run. I felt the need to all of a sudden go back to my college girl days, and I wanted to party and drink and live carefree with all my girlfriends. But I have now gotten over it. I'm very EXCITED for the wedding, and am in complete planning mode..though freak out mode DID set me back abit!!

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                  #19 Mrs Cato

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                    Posted 10 July 2010 - 11:37 PM

                    Thank goodness im not the only one he is really getting on my nerves as of late and we have had some major bust ups but we chilled out together today and did not discuss any of it which was cool ..............its like it bubbles up then im carm ...........then it bubbles up again.............ive just asked him to keep me focused that its all about us !!! and nothing else matters ............he said he will try so annoying lol

                    #20 Pazzesca

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                      Posted 13 July 2010 - 01:38 PM

                      i'm so glad someone else said this!! <3! for a long while i was feeling like i didn't even want to get married at all ever to anyone let alone to my fiance who i've been with for over 10 years and engaged for over 2, lol!!

                      i have little freak out moments like everyone but i manage to bring myself back from freaksoutville, lol.

                      i think to not doubt or question such a serious commitment/step, wouldn't be normal.

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