Oh, I feel the same way, like I'm going to find something way better after signing the contract and paying the resort :S
I have not and am not doing a site visit, can't afford it, but I have been in the are before, not at an AI resort though.
I am looking at dates at Now Jade right now, both through my TA and directly with the WC at the resort.
Do you have info on Zoetry? It looks amazing!!!! I originally wanted a smaller resort but most of them are a little too expensive for our guests. If you do have some info, I would love it if you could send it to me. Let me know and I will PM you with my email address. Thanks!