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#61 dstinationdrmr

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    Posted 07 July 2010 - 07:46 AM

    I'm glad to hear you two are doing better. Your situation has been on my mind because let's face it...this could happen to any of us. Keep your strength and faith and I'm sure things will fall into place. I have to say that looking at the bright side of this situation, when you guys finally do get married you will already know how to fight thru a tough battle. Just keep the tools you are using now close at hand for the rest of your relationship and hopefully the two of you will be able to tackle anything that comes your way.

    #62 bsf&jpg

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      Posted 08 July 2010 - 02:39 PM

      glad to hear you both are doing better!!! Time & Effort will make it alllllll better :)
      keep up the good work on reniforcing what he DOES do

      #63 *tinkertoy*

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        Posted 08 July 2010 - 02:43 PM

        Good news! I hate that the economy is so crappy that it effect things like self-worth. Hang in there!

        #64 roxmysockz

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          Posted 08 July 2010 - 02:53 PM

          Thanks for the update, I wish you both all the happiness in the world and hope you can both work through this xx

          #65 Ellabaja1983

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            Posted 08 July 2010 - 03:57 PM

            So, I'm super late on this but I just read through everything and I'm glad to hear things are looking up. Even if it means you have to postpone, at least you know you are doing what's best for you individually and as a family. Communication is the most important piece. It sounds like you guys have been communicating much more since the beginning of this thread at least.

            I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers, but remember... it will work out the way it is suppose to. Sticking together on the issue at hand is what will help get you through everything!
            Married the love of my life in April!!

            #66 soontobemrsdow

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              Posted 08 July 2010 - 05:22 PM

              I'm just seeing it all now and I'm sorry that siutation happened but maybe it was for the best. It will help strengthen your relationship and it just proves you two love each other enough to go through anything for each other! Glad to hear things are looking up.

              #67 Mrs Cato

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                Posted 08 July 2010 - 05:52 PM

                Great to hear that things are looking up for you and FI. You have mentioned that he doesnt want you to postpone I think that you need to do what best for you and if thats an option that will give you peace of mind and rest over the situation it may be one to consider.......for the meantime until other issues are resolved.....im sure family and friends will support you in any decision that you make. But it does sound like things are in hand as your speaking to someone to give you independant advice.

                Best of Luck babe and dont be a stranger I have found this thread so touching from everyone who has given honest advice from the heart!!!

                #68 JanineA

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                  Posted 08 July 2010 - 06:29 PM

                  Hey Jenna, I wanted to check back in. Glad to see that things have turned around and you guys are doing better. With a child involved I can understand both of your needs to solidify the union but don't worry it will happen at the right time and on time. Good luck!

                  #69 msjulie5475

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                    Posted 16 July 2010 - 01:48 PM

                    S0 sorry to hear about your situation. I agree with the ladies to hold off until things seem right as it is important for most men to feel like they can provide. You are on the right track with counseling. I've been laid off since March and it is pretty stressful.

                    #70 rkingtx

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                      Posted 21 August 2010 - 07:23 PM

                      Glad things have taken a turn for the better. Good luck to your and your FI.

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