He wants out...
Posted 05 June 2010 - 10:37 PM
Posted 06 June 2010 - 01:55 PM
Posted 06 June 2010 - 02:27 PM
Posted 07 June 2010 - 05:53 PM
Basically he is feeling pretty inadequate and wanting to provide me with what he thinks I deserve. He needs reassurance that I am able to be there for him through it all, but also feels that I have sacrificed more than my fair share and doesn't want that anymore. We prayed a lot and thought its time to get back to a spiritual foundation, which is very important to us, but a factor we have strayed away from in recent years. He admitted that he hated the field in which he was working and we talked about some of the things he wants to do and maybe he should consider pursuing those even if it means going back to school. Many people are retransforming themselves in this economy because they can't find jobs in their field. He felt really good after the session and we are still in talks about postponing. Really, I just want to be happy...we still aren't sure because while he says he still wants to go through with it, I think deep down he doesn't.
Posted 07 June 2010 - 07:27 PM
Good luck and I wish you both all the best!
Posted 07 June 2010 - 09:49 PM
You're right, the importance is to be happy and I'm so glad that the session went well and helped. Keep talking and you will get through this stronger!
Posted 08 June 2010 - 01:55 PM
Posted 08 June 2010 - 02:04 PM
I think the main thing is to work on making your relationship tighter. Maybe postponing will be the best thing to do, we wont ever understand what it means to be a man, and yes it is a lot to do with feeling inadequate. I say work on your relationship and yes he should try and pursue something he really loves and when that is all squared off, It will all work itself out. If there is Un-Parallel Love present. Things will fall into place. Keep communicating and let him know he is not alone. You are a team and that's what makes relationships work.
Posted 08 June 2010 - 05:19 PM
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