Moving 350 miles south to LA 6 weeks before our wedding?!?! Nervous breakdown NOW!
Posted 25 May 2010 - 01:02 AM
As of Friday last week, my life has been turned completely upside down. Let me start off by saying, it is a really good thing. FI got a job at a fab LA firm! It is such a great opportunity- HOWEVER- the timing of it is truly horrible.
To start, our budget was already super super tight w/ the upcoming wedding. And they want him to start June 1. SO..... that means that next weekend we are driving to LA in separate cars to find a place to live (hotel room for a couple of nights while we look $$), then god willing, we do find a place, we have to put down 1st month rent and deposit- $$$$$$$. I give 30 days notice on our current place, so we are paying rent at two places for the month. I have to leave FI in LA, come back up, pack our apartment, take care of our dog, all while I'm used to having FI for support because I have a 40 mile each way commute each day. (SO happy to leave that!) AND we have to pay 150 per person to change our flights to leave from LA to Cancun....
I was so looking forward to cruising through June, focusing on working out, finishing up DIY projects etc..... Now I may not have a job for awhile, packing the apt alone.....I've cried so many times this weekend- tears of joy, fear, excitement, so many emotions!!! I don't even know what to do.
Thank you so much for listening ladies- I love that I can always come to you all for support and advice. This wedding is going to be the biggest vacation I've ever had!!
If anyone lives in LA and can offer any advice, I would appreciate it SO SO SO SO Much!! FI is working in Brentwood, and we are looking to live in West Hollywood or Santa Monica area. But this is purely off of internet searching. We have only been there a few times for small weekend trips- it is SO nervewracking to try and find a place where you don't know! SCREEEEEAAAMMM!!!! Oh, and on top of it all, I have a feeling that the crying breaks were def !!
Posted 25 May 2010 - 08:22 AM
Posted 25 May 2010 - 08:45 AM
Posted 25 May 2010 - 09:39 AM
I love being a Mrs.!
Posted 25 May 2010 - 09:53 AM
Posted 25 May 2010 - 10:25 AM
All the best! I hope you find a place, I'm sure you will!
Posted 25 May 2010 - 10:35 AM
Posted 25 May 2010 - 11:15 AM
My Planning Thread
Posted 25 May 2010 - 04:20 PM
BTW, it is totally fine to cry!! Hehe.
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