| Originally Posted by animaldoc |
Is anyone not spending the night with their FI the night before the wedding? We are pretty sure we will spend the night apart, but I am not sure where to send him to spend the night, any suggestions?? We are thinking he may stay with his parents, but that may make getting ready on the wedding day a challenge.
We spent the night apart. After our rehearsal dinner, we watched the Eagles-Patriots game at the martini bar and then headed to Guacamayas... From there, the girls went back to our casita and had a lingerie shower for my wife. I hung out with the guys (talk of going to Cancun which we luckily decided against) and crashed in a single friends room.
It was a little bit of a hassle the next day to make sure to avoid eachother but it really was worth it. Just put someone in charge of making sure you're never in the same spot. We basically had her stay in the casita half of the resort and I stayed near the lobby. Only time we had to worry was when the girls went to the spa on wedding day, and that was easily handled by a couple of phone calls...
You might check with the resort. I feel like they were offering an extra room for the groom the night prior to the wedding at one point. Can't say for sure, but they can probably figure out a way to accomodate you if need be...
Good luck. It will be an amazing time either way!