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I bought my dress! I loved it yesterday.. today I'm not sure... HELP....

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#11 jodieP

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    Posted 10 May 2010 - 10:32 AM


    Hope you have decided what dress you really want to be married in! I agree with the others, when he see's you in the dress walking down the aisle towards him, he'll be blown away with how beautiful his bride looks and wont ever remember any other dress he ever seen!!

    Go with what dress you truely want I think you look amazing in both dresses but I especially like the first one!!

    My FI walked past my dress three times in the store window and didn't glance twice at it!! He has no idea he has actually seen my dress! It looks and sits better on me a million times better than the model in the window and I truly feel amazing in it!! The sparkle, glow you'll have from it being your wedding day will make you and feel indescribable in the dress you deep down want! :) Don't settle and choose your wedding dress with your heart!!

    Good luck and let us know what dress you decide on!


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    #12 JENISE

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      Posted 10 May 2010 - 01:52 PM

      Hey Eliana,

      You're a beautiful girl so you do both dresses justice. You look great in both. In my opinion, the first dress is more of the beachy tropical feel you're going for. The second dress is beautiful as well, but think about how hot you'd be in it. Either way, I don't think you can go wrong. But follow your gut and pic the dress you absolutely LOVE.

      It's ok that your FI just said "it's nice". I mean, what guy is really going to say, "OMG, that dress is absolutely gorgeous"? We all hope that's the response that you get but realistically......lol

      I'm sure you'll make the right decision and be gorgeous in either. Tick tock though, gotta make that decision quick.

      #13 SonyaR

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        Posted 10 May 2010 - 02:59 PM

        I agree with the others that guys aren't the best at expressing themselves so don't worry about that because you look great in both dresses.

        My honest opinion is that I love the first dress and think it's stunning and I'm not just saying that to make you feel better about your decision. I think it's perfect for a destination wedding.

        #14 Thomasjsgirl

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          Posted 10 May 2010 - 03:02 PM

          Eliana, they're both beautiful, but if I had to pick one for you, I would go with the second one. The first one looks nice on you, but the second one just seems to be made for you! Either way, go with what is in your heart and trust your instints!

          As for your guy's response -- that's pretty normal! They don't get all mushy about this kind of stuff, like we do. I would only be concerned if he absolutely hated it and it doesn't sound like he did!
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          #15 FutureMrsHolt

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            Posted 10 May 2010 - 03:06 PM

            Both of the dresses look beautiful on you. I would go with the second one. Men can't be of any help with the attire mine said they all look the same. I shot him a nasty look. They have no clue. Let us know which one you decide on!!!

            #16 Ashley*

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              Posted 10 May 2010 - 03:48 PM

              I agree I like the destiny...it definately flatters you. BUT, do what you want! It's your day, and whatever you're most confident in...that's the dress :)
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              #17 PrincssScorpion7

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                Posted 10 May 2010 - 04:08 PM

                This is one of the reasons my FI has not seen any pics of the dresses I have tried on. I want it to be a dress that I love and will make me feel pretty on that day. Do what is in your heart!

                #18 JanineA

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                  Posted 10 May 2010 - 04:42 PM

                  I have to agree with most of the ladies, you look beautiful in both but something about the Destiny screams that it was made for you. I went shopping for my dress alone, partially because I want it to be a dress I love sans the opinions. I hope whichever you choose, you choose it because you love it and it speaks to you. Good luck!

                  #19 SouthernSweetie

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                    Posted 10 May 2010 - 04:54 PM

                    The second one is more flattering on you, although both dresses are incredible AND I'm partial to Maggie Sottero's designs. You should go with the dress that evoked the most emotion/feeling from you. I've heard and seen so many times that when you find "the one" (dress) YOU KNOW.
                    Nevermind what the pictures of the dress didn't spark a rise out of your FI. It's someone else in the dress, not the love of his life. Go with the dress that you absolutely love and one that won't leave you with worry or guilt.

                    #20 Sherri84

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                      Posted 10 May 2010 - 09:03 PM

                      Eliana, Both dresses look amazing on you! But I agree that dress number 2 looks like it was made for you :) Choose the one that YOU feel like is the right one:)

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