Originally Posted by michelle2011
I agree, you HAVE TO HAVE TO HAVE TO do want YOU want on your day... you will not be able to please everyone. Tell them its Coral!! If that's what you want. My sister wasnt to happy about wearing pink but tough! I am a pink freak and i wouldn't change that for her.... I think all of us on here have had some sort of upset with our plans and you have to just think of your day and what you want and stick to it. Sod everyone else. This is one of those times when you get to call the shots and be selfish and have exactly what you want...as for the preggers BM you could buy her a floaty loose dress and then it will fall over her growing bump ;o) x
Sam i feel for you. I feel i have started a family rift too but all we've done is plan our wedding the way we want it. You will always upset someone. Your future SIL is being selfish and childish. Dont let it get to you. There is always someone that wants to cause a drama and it hurts when its a family member but you have nothing to feel bad about. My dad isn't coming to my wedding because he wont do the long flight! I was upset but over it now. I wouldn't change my plans to suit him and you shouldn't to please SIL. Its nice your MIL is sticking up for you over it. Just shows SIL is in the wrong. Chin up chick things will work themselves out ) x
OMG Nicy you cant go to work that day your be knackered hun.... can you not throw a sicky if they wont swap shifts with you? I think i would otherwise i'd be stressing all day. I can't wait to see all your pix ) we cant get in our room till 4pm but we dont need to really as not gonna decorate it, have to use their caterers so it'll only be to set up the cake really.... x
We are sitting here trying to teach Scarlett how to use Harrisons DSi (he never uses it) as the other little girls coming to Mexico with us have them and they are taking them on the plane so thought it another way to entertain her for a bit. Plus dvd player, colouring etc etc...
I think i'm gonna attempt to take her to the cinema this week to see Tangled. She's never been before and not sure its she's still a bit young but gonna brave it and see how it goes. She might get a bit restless but i'm sure it will be an adventure for her...
Good god i've just had a mcdonalds and have my dress fitting tomorrow. What is wrong with me. Better go for a run and burn it off ............(NOT) lol x
Michelle, i have sat last night and this morn and ate nowt but crap... cream egg, galaxy, we ordered take away (pizza N chips) and after all that torture on the cabbage soup... OH well cant go back now but i will do a wee bit of zumba and fitness on the kinect later!!! LOL :-)
Im so excited for you and your dress fitting..... cant believe its here already!! Whoo :-)
I wouldnt be able to call in sick as my work collegues have been invited to the do... i have hope in 2 of the girls i work with swapping fingers x'd x
Were not doing much more decorating other than balloons and table cloths as we need something as its not a fancy room its just a room at the FC so needs something!! LOL... im sure I be ok... keeping busy will (hopefully) take my mind off things x
Like you we have upset a few people alng the way but we and they just have to deal with it.... firstly, it upset me (and her) that my sis and her fam couldnt make it and also upset us that Stephens parents wont come as they have a dog (WTF!!!!!) and his dad wont sit on the plane.... and some family upset as they cant afford to come..... but at the end of the day its our wedding and if we changed one single thing then i know we wouldnt be doing for the right reasons and i want our wedding day to be about us..... as it should be!!
Luckily now we are having an AHR (didnt think we were going to for a while due to money) so those who cant make it for one reason or another can come (and not forgetting i can wear dress again...LOL)
Great idea about the DSi, you could maybe get some sort of princess game for it (if they do one). That is great though especially if Harrison isnt going to use it... the more thing you have for Scarlett to do the better :-) We have told Karen (stephens sis) we will have Am©lie for a bit if they want to give them a break on the plane.... ive never had first hand experience of taking children away but i can only imagine what its like and go off what my mum says!! LOL x
Weddings definatly bring the best and the worst out in people... i just dont understand some people... i would never in a million years try to tell someone who, what, where, when, why & how about their wedding day.... after all its their day..... URGH!!!! some people!!!! xxx