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OMG have I had some drama today ...... We went into Thomsons to add 2 more to the wedding party and my neice works there (her mum is calv's sister who has been making a fuss over our wedding) anyway within 20 mins of us leaving Thomson Calv gets a phone call from his sister asking if our friends (who we booked for) were coming with us so Calv says yes..... WELL she hit the roof saying that she couldn't afford to come (which isn't exactly true) and that if we wanted friends and family to come to our wedding we should do it here!!!! Calv politely told her that we were doing what we wanted and that we weighed all the options before making any decisions and that we felt that we decided that we would do what we wanted as a wedding and by giving everyone 15-16 mths notice to save if they wanted to come with us they could anyway Calv ended up going to his sisters house for 2 hours and they still haven't resolved anything.... I am completely fed up of all this drama cos part of the reason we are going away to get married is because she doesn't speak to her (and Calv's) dad and she doesn't get on with her step mum either and there is just too much stress for a formal wedding.....  Grr Grr bloody families x  Sorry for the rant girls but I feel better after ranting on here makes it easier to deal with things if that makes any sense xx

 

 

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Lyndsey - Where are your pics of your hen night??? Did you go to Newcastle?? Calv has booked to go there on his stag he spent some time up there when he was in the army and absolutely loved it so he is going back for his stag plus he still has some mates there......

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Nicy OMG OMG I am so excited for you honey xx.....Wishing you & Steven all the happiness in the world, have an amazing time & enjoy every moment!!!!  You are going to make one gorgeous bride & I can't wait to hear all about it!!  I can't imagine how you must be feeling right now.....soooooo excited!!!!!!!!! Thank you also for all your advice & moral support over the last year, BDW wouldn't have been the same without you....speak to you soon chick!! xxxx

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Just checking in....

 

We get picked up in 3 hours :-) and i couldnt go without saying THANK YOU all so so much, Thanks for being there through one of the most important times of my life and helping me every step of the way :-)

 

Good Luck for your wedding Lyndsey :-)

 

Signing of as a miss for the last time!!!!!

 

See you ALL on the other side ladies.........

 

Love to you all xxxxxx

 

 

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I feel for you. We had a similar situation and families are just a nightmare. Just imagine if you were getting married in this country there would have been more issues with arguments about who is invited and where everyone sits. So perhaps is the lesser of 2 evils. Why don't people understand it's your wedding and you should do what you want to do!!!!

 

Good luck x

Originally Posted by samcalv1 View Post

OMG have I had some drama today ...... We went into Thomsons to add 2 more to the wedding party and my neice works there (her mum is calv's sister who has been making a fuss over our wedding) anyway within 20 mins of us leaving Thomson Calv gets a phone call from his sister asking if our friends (who we booked for) were coming with us so Calv says yes..... WELL she hit the roof saying that she couldn't afford to come (which isn't exactly true) and that if we wanted friends and family to come to our wedding we should do it here!!!! Calv politely told her that we were doing what we wanted and that we weighed all the options before making any decisions and that we felt that we decided that we would do what we wanted as a wedding and by giving everyone 15-16 mths notice to save if they wanted to come with us they could anyway Calv ended up going to his sisters house for 2 hours and they still haven't resolved anything.... I am completely fed up of all this drama cos part of the reason we are going away to get married is because she doesn't speak to her (and Calv's) dad and she doesn't get on with her step mum either and there is just too much stress for a formal wedding.....  Grr Grr bloody families x  Sorry for the rant girls but I feel better after ranting on here makes it easier to deal with things if that makes any sense xx

 

 



 

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Hello Ladies,

 

Has anyone decided to go for a parasol for their wedding day?  FIL mentioned it to me & the more I think of it, the more I quite like the idea.  I guess I would walk from the villa to the weddding location & then pass it to the Wedding Coordinator.  What does everyone else think?

 

 

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Thanx Kerry we were hoping to avoid all these arguments!!!! I just wish she could be happy for us that we are finally getting married after all these years but it is not the case it was really getting to us at one stage but we are now well this is what we want please just be happy for us..

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Hi Sam,

 

I hope you manage to sort things out.  It's never easy when families cause problems.  Try to keep your chin up.  This day is for you & Calv.

 

Originally Posted by samcalv1 View Post

Thanx Kerry we were hoping to avoid all these arguments!!!! I just wish she could be happy for us that we are finally getting married after all these years but it is not the case it was really getting to us at one stage but we are now well this is what we want please just be happy for us..



 

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