Any brides from the UK

[Soon-to-be-McRae]

Herbie.....Hope your dad gets better soon Herbie (((big hugs)))

 

Vicki x

 

[michelle2011]

 

 

Originally Posted by herbie76 

 

Thanks Roo & Nicyx but not good news, dads test came back showing his amilays were high so they sent him to hospital and he's is being kept in and treated for pancreatitis, doesn't look good for him being him for his birthday though :-(

 

 

Sorry to hear that herbie. Sending lots of love and positive thoughts your way x

[Nicyx]

Sending lots of  yours and your dads way too x Thinking of you and your family x

[roo66]

Sorry you didnt get the news you were hoping for.Hes in the right place now to get better soon xx

[*lyndsey*]

sorry to hear that herbie, fingers crossed he gets better soon x

[roxmysockz]

 

herbie76 - How is your dad now? xx

 

 

 

I used to think it was crazy when I heard brides were having nightmares about their wedding - last night I had nightmares ALL night!!!!

 

One was that i've left my wedding dress at home forgotten to pack it and I was desperately trying to arrange someone to ship it with no avail the second one was that for some reason i'd had no time to get ready so I just went down the asile and when I got back to my room I looked in the mirror and had no makeup on my hair was a mess, one of my bridesmaids wasnt wearing her dress cuz she couldnt find it and basically EVERYTHING had gone wrong!!!

 

It was awful  woke up really sad this morning because of it!

 

grrrr

[janapana]

 

 

Originally Posted by roxmysockz 

 

 

herbie76 - How is your dad now? xx

 

 

 

I used to think it was crazy when I heard brides were having nightmares about their wedding - last night I had nightmares ALL night!!!!

 

One was that i've left my wedding dress at home forgotten to pack it and I was desperately trying to arrange someone to ship it with no avail the second one was that for some reason i'd had no time to get ready so I just went down the asile and when I got back to my room I looked in the mirror and had no makeup on my hair was a mess, one of my bridesmaids wasnt wearing her dress cuz she couldnt find it and basically EVERYTHING had gone wrong!!!

 

It was awful  woke up really sad this morning because of it!

 

grrrr

 

 

I keep having dreams about my dress... in the last one i was wearing a crushed red velvet high necked number...... with braces made of crocheted lace with lots and lots of keys attached..... someone analyse that and find out what it means!!!!!

 

[char79uk]

Hi ladies

 

i haven't been on for a while becasue we've had more bad news this week...on Monday morning my cousin's 4 week old baby was rushed to hospital becasue she stopped breathing, went limp and turned blue, my cousin managed to resuscitate her but over the next couple of days it happened 3 more times...she is still in hospital and is now out of intensive care, it hasn't happened for a few days now but they are keeping her in for another week just incase.  All the tests are coming back 'normal' and the only explanation the doctors can give is that when baby's have heartburn it can be so intense and painful that they loose consciousness...the only problem is that she wasn't in pain she was in her mums arms and just went limp and stopped breathing so we are not buying that...I suppose the positive is that it hasn't happened again since Wednesday but my cousin is so scared to bring her home incase it happens when she is in her moses basket.

 

Also on Monday Wayne's grandad died, it has been one big rollercoaster of emotions and i'm trying to stay strong for Wayne but I was really close to his grandad and i just want to cry all the time but don't want to burden Wayne with my emotions...he seems so normal about it all but everybody keeps telling me that people deal with death in different ways.  We've got the 9 night (a caribbean tradition of celebrating the life of the person on the 9th night that they died) on Wednesday and then the funeral the week after...loads of family are starting to come over from America and 2 coach loads are coming down from Birmingham expecting about 200-250 people at the funeral so i've been busy helping with the preparations. 

 

On a positive note my dad came out of hospital yesterday, he is still week but on the mend now so that is one thing of my mind.  With everything that has gone on over the last month or so i just feel so numb now i'm so tired and just want to cry all of the time.  Hopefully things will calm down soon and I can start to feel a bit normal again.

 

 

herbie....I really hope that your dad gets better soon hun, thinking of you and your family xxx
 

Sallee....welcome to the forum, Costa Rica sounds lovely!

Vicki...fantastic news about the job x

 

Jo...i would get the dress adjusted and see how it looks then, and if you still really don't like it choose another one (quickly), I know that your mum brought it but i'm sure she'll understand it is your wedding day after all and you don't want to feel uncomfortable on your special day.

 

 

Nicy...the jewellery is lovely and only $10 to ship thats excellent.


 

[janapana]

Oh Char, you´re having a crap time aren´t you. So sorry to hear about Wayne´s grandad. You´re right, people do deal with death in different ways, my OH just gets his head down and gets on with it, and even though i know he´s gutted, he doesn´t want me to even mention it. Have you got someone you can have a good cry on?

 

I hope your cousins baby stays good, it must have been terrifying for her mum.

 

Glad to hear that your dad is on the mend... chin up luv & stay strong. XX

[michelle2011]

Kerry OMG how funny, well not funny to you but funny reading! lol. I've had a few they are horrible but you laugh after. I'm sure you wont forget "the dress" lol..

 

Herbie how is things?

  

Char i'm so sorry to hear your having a rough time of it. It's all happening at once isn't it. What happened to the baby sounds just like what happens to my friends little boy. He has Reflex Anoxic Seizures . It means if he gets to upset, frightened, shocked or excited or hurts himself he stops breathing and collapes or body goes limp. Very scary. Anything can trigger it off. I would hate it to happen to my kids. What a worry. At least she is in Hospital being looked after. Finger's x'd they get to the bottom of it and it's not what Drew has.