Oh Amanda ( I'm so sorry you have to deal with that. I do have a bridesmaid that is quite 'outspoken' sometimes, but no where near what you have to deal with (. I do however have a guest coming, who first and foremost invited HERSELF to my "family and bridal party-only wedding", that is causing all sorts of drama with mine and my FI's wedding party. She's a drama-mama to begin with, but I'm so annoyed that I ever let her guilt me into letting her book in the first place.
Ooooh well... I guess I would say my advice for you would be to try not to even pay it mind. I know that is way easier said than done, but I have gotten to the point where I just don't bother with what anyone else is saying, thinking or doing. The small things that are going on with my group right now are going to have no impact on how my wedding will go and how happy we are going to be on our wedding day, so I'm just not going to sweat it. Hopefully the drama with her has passed, but if not, I would just try not to even pay it any mind. If she hangs up on you or doesn't want to talk, so be it. If she doesn't have a dress, I guess she can't be in your bridal party. lol I know that seems harsh, but I guess I'm at that harsh point with all of my drama as well and feel like that is the best way to make sure you continue to worry about nothing but your happiness and your day!
On a brighter note, I had my shower this weekend!!! My girls and mom did an awesome job and I had a great time ). It officially made our wedding feel even closer!! We have 5 1/2 weeks until we leave for Mexico!! My FI's bach party is in 3 weeks and mine is in 4, so once that excitment is over, we will really be in crunch time! I just need to finish my programs and welcome books. I also believe I'm going to buy one more thing for our moms and am trying to decide what to do for placecards for our dinner. Ooo and my 2nd dress fitting is a week from tomorrow!!!
We are almost there girls!! I hope everyone is enjoying their planning and prepping..