| Originally Posted by Boo |
ha ha, yes you are a rare breed on this forum, I honestly do wish that more guys took the time to particapate and contribute, but thats a whole other topic
just as an update, we did have somewhat of a very uncomfortable talk about this, yes I think he would be hurt now if I changed it, so I wont. That being said, my FH is truly the most caring / giving person in the world, but after our talk I did get the impression that he spent more effort on the football draft at the time then picking out the ring. I can see inclussions on the side quite easily, maybe its one of those things that once you see it, you always do, sigh, and he said he had no idea what that was. Kinda dissapointing because it made me feel like he had chosen a ring without much thought, I could be totally off base, it has been 6 months but to not remember what you went for just 6 months later is very dissapointing.
To say he "didn't notice" the imperfection means he didn't take that much time.
Quick Story: The jeweler was pushing me towards a larger rock (same price) but larger rock. Under the microscope I could see a black spot so I refused and went with the smaller diamond. To the NAKED EYE you would have never seen that spot but I knew it was there and didn't want it.
Did I confuse you more?