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#21 MDLady

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    Posted 14 April 2010 - 01:01 PM

    Originally Posted by carolina24
    our resort gives the groom a room for the night before the wedding so he'll be staying there. that morning im having breakfast with my mom and then meeting the girls at the salon. FI and I won't see each other until i'm walking down the aisle, but that's how i've always wanted it...so in conclusion....do what makes you comfortable, not what people think you should be doing!!
    We wanted to do that but when will you take pictures together? I don't want to make the guests wait for us too long while we take pictures all over the place? How are you getting around that?

    #22 dianep

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      Posted 14 April 2010 - 01:11 PM

      we'll be staying in the same room the night before. but once the preparations begin, i'm not planning on letting him see me until i'm totally ready. not sure yet if we'll wait until i'm walking down the aisle or not... i'd kinda like that, but logistics will, unfortunately, have to rule.
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      #23 jcruzin76

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        Posted 14 April 2010 - 02:23 PM

        We will be staying in separate rooms, but thats not my doing. I was actually ok with staying in the same room, my only concern was that he did not see me all made up in my wedding dress until I walk down the aisle. But, my fiance actually wanted to keep tradition so, more than likely my MOH will be staying with me in our suite and the FI will be staying with MOH's husband in her room. And hopefully, we wont run into each other before the wedding!!!
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        #24 janapana

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          Posted 14 April 2010 - 02:53 PM

          Originally Posted by Sax Lady
          My mom and sister suggested we not see each other the day of the wedding and spend the night seperatly. I probably will stay with my sister which is also the MOH and we will get ready in her room. Our wedding is at 4pm but their are all kinds of things going on that us women need to do so i'm sure we will be busy and he can just spend the time with his friend and also with the kids we have a son together and he has a daughter so this can be bonding time for them while i'm doing girl things. haha
          Love it! We also have two kids, and while i definitely want to spend the night with him before we get married, I´m more than happy for him to take the kids off for some quality time so i can get ready!

          #25 cjb0arder13

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            Posted 14 April 2010 - 03:44 PM

            I sleep like ca-ca without my FI next to me. Even when he goes on hunting trips at home, I basically don't sleep while he's gone. I can't imagine spending a sleepless night before the biggest day of my life :) So he and I will snuggle like usual, and I'll kick him out come morning.

            #26 hat0112

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              Posted 14 April 2010 - 03:54 PM

              My FI and I will be staying the same room the night before. I hate it when he goes on trips and I am alone so I don’t want that feeling the night before my wedding. We will be staying together that night, then going to breakfast and separating after we eat till the wedding at 5:30.

              You need to do whatever you and your FI want to do and don’t worry about what others think you should do.
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              #27 march132010

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                Posted 14 April 2010 - 05:46 PM

                The night before my wedding we go so drunk and he would not walk me to anyone's room, so we stayed the night together, the day of we woke up had breakfast and lunch and hung out before it was time to get dressed just us two!!!!, then we got dressed in different rooms.. It was the best decision we could have made,

                #28 PrincssScorpion7

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                  Posted 15 April 2010 - 09:04 PM

                  He and I will not sleep in the same room the night before. He will see me as I walk down the sand.

                  #29 *Karla*

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                    Posted 15 April 2010 - 09:14 PM

                    I spent the night before with my MOH. We were at a very small hotel, so we just had friend make sure we were not in the same place at the same time. It wasn't really that big of a deal to me, but it was nice to see him for the first time that day down on the sand waiting for me.

                    #30 MrsC-to-Be

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                      Posted 15 April 2010 - 09:20 PM

                      I completely want us to sleep separately!! we bought a house like 2yrs ago, so I totally want the semi-separation-anxiety bit when he sees me. I feel it may add a bit more to the whole 'wedding' theme. I mean come on, we're all doing a 'destination wedding', so not a typical wedding most would expect.........but, I cannot WAIT to see his face when I walk down the isle, and for him to see me for the first time in like...30hrs? when he's used to seeing me EVERY am..... seems silly, but I want it so much!!

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