RSVP's .... non-responders
Posted 13 April 2010 - 04:39 PM
I had the same issue- even one of my bridemaids yes bridesmaid! did not RSVP (but fully expects her dress to be payed for by me!). Weddings bring out the best and worst behaviours.
Posted 13 April 2010 - 05:36 PM
I have some time so I'm just going to wait and see. Once the deadline passes, I think I will speak to my mother and moh and have them reach out to their family members/friends( the ones who have said they may come). I won;t stress it too much but it does make it harder to move the plans along. I actually have a May 1 deadline because I knew this would happen. Planning a wedding has made me see so many things differently.
Great discussion... thanks ladies!
Posted 13 April 2010 - 05:47 PM
Posted 13 April 2010 - 10:21 PM
Posted 14 April 2010 - 01:07 PM
| Originally Posted by tracy0716 |
Ahhh the stamps! I hadn't even considered my beautiful RSVP stamps! My mom is going to be so pissed...she paid for them and paid almost double to get beautiful beach stamps from zazzle. Nice to know we're not alone...I wish people were more considerate.
Posted 14 April 2010 - 08:17 PM
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Posted 20 April 2010 - 04:51 PM
| Originally Posted by JanineA |
Sheree are you in constant contact with the WC at your resort? Ask her to send you an update. Every so often mine send me an update of anyone that has booked at the hotel. Which is how I was able to find about that 8 people who actually told me no initially went ahead and booked. We made it clear on our wedding website guests had to mention they are going for our wedding to receive the special room rate. As a result they are also coded differently in the resorts system and it is easy for my WC to send me a list. There is always a chance people may stay elsewhere but try to control what is in your grasp. As you said you have enough on your plate and it is also their responsibility to respond in a timely fashion. Try not to let this part frustrate you and good luck!
I've gotten a few more rsvp's but I highly doubt I will get a full response by the deadline. As of now the main people are accounted for.
Posted 20 April 2010 - 04:53 PM
| Originally Posted by Island Bride |
My deadline is also May 1st and I sent them out in March and I've gotten about 30 RSVP's out of about 150 back!!! But some people have already booked rooms at my resort so I obviously know there coming and I havent gotten RSVP's back from them. I cant complain too much.. they still have 2 weeks to respond. But I agree.. its very frustrating!
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