RSVP's .... non-responders
Posted 13 April 2010 - 10:11 AM
Posted 13 April 2010 - 10:18 AM
UGH I am so frustrated even though I know that this happens with everyone who is planning a wedding but because I want to plan for my OOT bags and my favors I wanted to start things now so that it doesn't hit our pockets all at once!!
I can't wait for this part to be over and we are in Punta Cana celebrating!!
Good Luck and I feel your pain!
Posted 13 April 2010 - 10:55 AM
Anyway, I sent one mass email to all of the people who hadn't rsvp'd the day after the deadline just asking them to let us know either way what their intentions were. If they sent it in & we just hadn't received it yet I asked them to disregard the email. We did get several no's that way and it nudged the others to go ahead & book. Ours was right after the holidays though so I know it was bad timing and people could easily forget, which was why I didn't mind sending out that one email. But calling everyone was out of the question!
Posted 13 April 2010 - 11:30 AM
We didn't follow up with people because if they really wanted to go, they would have let us know. I had put a note that said something like "please RSVP to ensure a dinner plate for your and your guests".
So we're not bothering to call people or whatever. It's their losses if they DO show up at the wedding with no seat or dinner! =)
Posted 13 April 2010 - 11:38 AM
Posted 13 April 2010 - 11:46 AM
In one hand, I want to go with a majority on this one, and just not reach out- but on the other hand, I don't want people to be without favors... I'll let FI decide what he wants to do since HE will be reaching out to his own friends.
I know it's been said time and time again, but REALLY people? Especially you that we paid an arm and a leg for to hit up the FL keys last year and booked way far in advance AND still sent the RSVP!
Posted 13 April 2010 - 11:50 AM
Posted 13 April 2010 - 01:35 PM
We will not be calling anyone if they don’t RSVP. If they are too lazy to send it back then that is their problem and we are going to count them as a no.
I love being a Mrs.!
Posted 13 April 2010 - 01:39 PM
Posted 13 April 2010 - 03:21 PM
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