April 2011 Brides

[mochamakes3]

Laura, that's great and it's so much better knowing that the "fee" will go to the local hospital instead.

[kitty25967]

I also got my labels printed last night for my hand sanitizers.  These are for the pocketbacs from Bath & Body Works.  I bought tropical scents.  My mom has volunteered to put these on for me! yay!  We kind of work as a team on the DIY projects, I design and start it and she finishes it for me

[Ellabaja1983]

Brandy, I'm glad the fitting went well!  I can't wait to see pictures from your next fitting!

 

Laura, I'm glad you were able to get your notarizing stuff figured out!  Yay! 

 

Kitty, I love the earrings and the labels for the hand sanitizer!  Very cute!!

 

 

 

So, I have another VENT....  it's kind of a big one, well big to men, you ladies will understand though...  So, I got home tonight, to no FI...  gone...not word as to where...so I said fine, I'm not caring and went to the gym!!  I get home to find that he has made dinner for him and the boys, but not me...fine - whatever!  So, I went downstairs to find him in his pj's and all of the unfolded laundry where it was YESTERDAY morning.  So...I put my dinner in the oven and folded the laundry.  As I'm eating dinner, his brother calls to tell him which menu choices he and his gf want for the wedding.  So his brother is like, ooh, she can't do either, she's a vegan.  Yea, that's all great and stuff...BUT there are no vegetarian or vegan options....  FI says, "I'll have Michelle contact the WC and see if we can have a different option..."  NEWSFLASH...Michelle is your EX-WIFE!!!!!!!!!  Needless to say, we went from not talking, to me talking to him with just curse words!  I was SO mad!  Needless to say, I think he feels that that like incident broke the ice and we are speaking again!  Ugh, boys!

[lisadias]

Hey ladies

 

I have been so busy with family drama on the weekend and work that I haven't been able to write much but I will try to comment on what I remember.

 

Meggers- I love those clutches and they are my colors too!

Thanks Mocha, Sisters are our source or drama for sure but after the way she treated me the last 8mths and with using the words "I don't want to feel like a phony standing up there" was enough for me! then she says to my other sister it's going to be weird seeing you too walk down the aisle! Too bad so sad! I can relate greysgirl, sisters can be so sellfish sometimes!

Brandy- Glad to hear the dress fits much better, can't wait to see pics.

Teira-The iron on's look great!

Kitty-so many things in the last few days and they are look fabulous!

Laura-Congrats on getting those luggage tags done finally! Isn't the color perfect on those lanyards , I love them! Can't wait to see your AHR creation cause I can barely sew lol

Erin-Ohhhh I would have been HOT mad too!

 

My only vent from yesterday was that I gave FI the job of putting the rose petals in the organza bags and he started doing them so of course I was helping but he was soooo freaking slow that I did most of them lol I guess they are right when they say if you want something done right do it yourself, but I try not to be too critical cause I want help to help me with other stuff and you know how men can be babies when they feel you don't think they are your hero!!! lol

[Ellabaja1983]

 

 

Originally Posted by lisadias 

 

My only vent from yesterday was that I gave FI the job of putting the rose petals in the organza bags and he started doing them so of course I was helping but he was soooo freaking slow that I did most of them lol I guess they are right when they say if you want something done right do it yourself, but I try not to be too critical cause I want help to help me with other stuff and you know how men can be babies when they feel you don't think they are your hero!!! lol

 

I love your last line!  It's so dead on!!!

[mochamakes3]

Lisa, sometimes I feel like my real sisters are my friends because they really are supportive and understanding.

 

I do have to say that being able to get things done on my own without FI was the only bonus of being apart. He never would have let me be so fussy and tedious about getting things done, especially our invites. He would have just wanted me to get them done so we could spend time together.

 

Erin, it's good to know that at least now you two are speaking. Boys are so stubborn!

[lisadias]

I feel the same way. My cousin and one of my aunts has also helped my tremendously. I don't have a relationship with my mother so my aunt is kind of the fill in!

[kiwibride]

Well i have finally read all your posts that i have missed over the last few days!! FI and i just got home from our dance lesson, we have almost memorized the entire dance 4 more lessons to go! Meggers i love the clutches they are fantastic. Brandy that is great to hear that your dress fits perfectly.

[Ellabaja1983]

 

Originally Posted by mochamakes3 

 

Erin, it's good to know that at least now you two are speaking. Boys are so stubborn!

 Sometimes I just wish they would realize that their words may just be words to them, but they hold a lot of meaning when they say them to us....

[Brandy]

Thats why I always tell FI and myself to always think before you speak, bc words can really hurt!!

 

Im so sorry to hear this Erin, thats just crazy I would be so mad too, but good for you for just leaving and going to the gym and taking it out there, Im sure that helped a little, maybe a couple of rounds on the punching bag???LOL