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Does the MOH get a bigger gift then the BMs?

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#1 SDbeachgirl

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    Posted 18 March 2010 - 11:44 PM

    Am I supposed to spend more on my MOH's gift than I do the other bridesmaid gifts?

    #2 *Meagan*

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      Posted 19 March 2010 - 01:02 AM

      Hi there! I got my MOH and BM's the same gifts; earrings for wedding day and Oakley sunglasses. And on wedding day I gave my MOH a starfish to put in her hair. To have her stand out differently than my BM.

      It is all in your preference though. GOOD LUCK!

      #3 JerseyBride1981

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        Posted 19 March 2010 - 01:05 AM

        I was thinking that I will definitely make a HUGE effort to show my appreciation for the MOH as she has really gone out of her way to make this day and process special for me. So yeah I will be doing some extra things for her so that she knows how much I truly appreciate her being there through all of the BS and everything else in this process.

        #4 FutureMrsYak

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          Posted 22 March 2010 - 10:46 AM

          I plan to put a few extra things in my MOH's OOT compared to my BM's bags...but all of the BM will have extra personalized things that guests won't get.

          #5 Thomasjsgirl

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            Posted 22 March 2010 - 11:06 AM

            Some people do get the MOH something bigger, but it all depends on what cultural traditions are important to you. I like the logic of getting something special for a MOH that has gone above and beyond the regular MOH duties, but you don't need to feel obligated to do so either. It's a totally personal choice.
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            #6 PVBride2010

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              Posted 22 March 2010 - 11:18 AM

              I have 3 bridesmaid, I am giving them all passport cover books, some lotion, lipgloss etc, and I purchased their accessories for the wedding (shoe, earrings etc).

              BUT I did get my Moh something special. A personalized wine glass that reads Cheers to the best MOH in the world:
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              And I ordered one for me too:
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              #7 kris

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                Posted 22 March 2010 - 02:51 PM

                I gave all my bridesmaids and MOH the same gifts. They all worked equally as hard at everything for me so I just had a dinner and handed the same thing out to all of them!

                #8 Diva

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                  Posted 22 March 2010 - 02:55 PM

                  I have three MOHs because I didn't want to differentiate between my three ladies, so I am not calling any of them BMs per se. I bought them all something comparable (gifts from Tiffany & Co) but they are each unique. You can do something like that if you truly want to give something different.

                  #9 FutureMrsYak

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                    Posted 22 March 2010 - 03:21 PM

                    PVBRIDE where did you get the wine glasses? They are very cute...and my MOH is a huge wine-o! lol

                    #10 josietoms

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                      Posted 22 March 2010 - 04:10 PM

                      i got my bridesmaid and MOH the same gifts ie; jewellery. But i got a small personalised jewellery wrap as well for MOH as a little extra. But its purely down to personal preference really. I didnt want to discrimate against by BM as she is a hairdresser so is putting in a lot of effort doing everyones hair.
                      Josie x

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