BM/MOH Advice Please!
Posted 02 March 2010 - 10:34 PM
My sister and I are close but not nearly as close as my friends. I am going to ask her to be a bridesmaid and maybe ask my good friend to be the MOH.
I don't want to hurt anyones's feelings and I don't think that my friend could handle the task a MOH is "suuposed" to do, as I am an organizer and she isn't at all, so I was also thinking of just asking them all of be BM and not have a MOH at all.
BUT then my FI kind of wants to ask one of his friends to be a best man, will that be weird if he has that and I don't have a MOH??
He said he woulld just go without a bestman and have them all be GM but I can tell he would prefer the best man situation.
I could really use some advice on what to do, I need to send out the "Will you be my bridesmaid" card soon so I am giving them a lot of notice. Any suggestions would be so awesome, my brain hurts!
Posted 02 March 2010 - 10:46 PM
Posted 03 March 2010 - 12:20 AM
Posted 03 March 2010 - 11:52 AM
If you want all BM - go for it. He can still have a best man. I keep running into things like this and I just keep telling myself - there really isn't anything traditional about having a DW anyways. So I can really go with anything.
I have two sisters and couldn't decide - so I'm having 2 MOH. That's another option? They are both younger & would probably prefer to share some responsibility anyways
Posted 03 March 2010 - 12:51 PM
Posted 05 March 2010 - 10:35 PM
All in all, I 100% agree with the other ladies...you can have your wedding party and ceremony any way you please...Don't let the stress of it get you, you will be relieved when the decision is over! I know I was!
Best of luck
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