Huge Drama that leads to a dilemma...please give me advice!
Posted 22 February 2010 - 05:43 PM
| Originally Posted by Melidell |
Basically, I think that if you want FBIL to be there, she'll need to be there too. If you think he'll just go without her you're probably being overly optimistic. This is his wife we're talking about- would you go if it was your husband being excluded?
I think you're totally right to not like this girl and she sounds like a nightmare (lying to the inlaws!) but as soon as you try to exclude her from the wedding and the reception you become the bad guy. If there's a rift in the family because of this they'll blame you and your wedding. You probably don't want to start your new life together like that. If you back down now then you're the bigger person, and if she decides not to attend or acts poorly when she's there then she looks like the bitch that she is.
I would clear things up with the brother and how he sees the whole situation. maybe he can help and talk to her.
Posted 22 February 2010 - 06:02 PM
Honestly our wedding day came and I really didn't give a crap that she was there and when she pulled her BS again or attempted I should say she got the death stare from so many people she nearly crawled under a rock.
You'll be surprized how you can tune her out and after all you'll be the one people respects for loving your husband enough to put your best foot foward when it belong up someones ass. opps!!
Good luck hun.... sending power hug
Posted 23 February 2010 - 01:39 PM
Posted 23 February 2010 - 10:34 PM
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