| Originally Posted by svetayasofiya |
Oh Brandy, your friends suck. I am sorry, but this just isn't how friends should treat eachother. ((hugs)) How many BM's do you have? Can you kick those two to the wayside? No one should have that kind of power to make you wish your wedding was over. That's just plain wrong in so many ways.
(Btw- why did you have to change your wedding from Mexico to Omaha?)
Hahaha....your post made me laugh, for what feels like the first time in months. I know I shouldn't find it funny, but my friends do suck. It's okay. I've come to terms with it. I have 9 BMs. My party is huge, I know. In my defense though, almost half of them are men. I donâ€™t get along very well with most women, but thatâ€™s beside the point.
I would boot these girls out, but then Iâ€™d be the bad guy because theyâ€™ve already spent so much money on their dresses, and I really really HATE confrontation. I talk big, but in reality Iâ€™m just a big pansy flower.
I had to switch the wedding after the tantrum that FIâ€™s momma threw over our DW, and my own parents were having financial difficulties of their own. It came down to choosing between the beach and the people we love. Our loved ones won that one.
Iâ€™ve come to the conclusion that I canâ€™t change people. Iâ€™ve just taken to repeating the serenity prayer to myself with a little twist anytime they get mouthy. If anybody needs it, feel free to try it.
â€œGod, grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference. And as these women continue to run their mouths at me, give me the self control not to slap them across the face.â€
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On the bright side, my boys are awesome! We went to the florist and to my final dress fitting today, and I LOVE having bridesmen to tell me how pretty I look! Such an ego boost. 9 days ladies, I can totally do this, and then I donâ€™t have to deal with these BMâ€™s anymore if I donâ€™t want to.