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I'm in tears!!!! I can't believe someone would be so mean!!!!

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Like i said. If you know its not true then definitely just brush it off your head. Trust me all throughout life people are going to try and rain on your parade but you can't let those comments affect you otherwise they succeeded in their purpose to make you miserable. Big inhale, bug exhale and move on.. Don't worry about the actions of stupid people :)....

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Now, to top it all off, my FI grandmother told me she can't come to the wedding today through tears! She says she is just too old to make the trip! We had no idea this would happen and now I feel so horrible that she won't be there! She is old but still very active so I had no idea that her not going was even a concern. Baaah, could anything else go wrong? sad.gif

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Oh boy. First I would agree that if you have already nuked the offending post, let it go and don't worry about it. Go and have fun and be happy - that is all that matters.

 

Second...sorry about grandma. Not to try stuffing anything down her throat, but maybe if she can share with you the specifics of why she cannot go it might (hopefully) be something you guys can work around. I assume your resort has the full medical staff on site 24/7...if she needs blood work or something done regularly, maybe the WC can help you make arrangements so grandma can still go? I am sorry this last few days has been so tough on you....sending you hugs and happy thoughts! smile03.gif

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Hey Diamondpooch,

 

I actually just read through your wedding crasher post as well, sounds like you're having a doozie of a time with things!

 

I'm sorry to hear about your grandma also, both my FI and my grandma's won't be making the trip either. That's the main reason I'm actually having an AHR. I actually almost cancelled it because the point of a DW for me is to save some money, but my mom lost it when I told her!

 

Good luck with those crazy friends of your FI, everything will work out in the end for you!

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Sorry to hear about that post on your wedding website. Stay strong and dont let something like that or anything else ruin the happiness of your wedding. What matters is you and you future husband.

 

As for your grandmother it sad to hear that she will not make it but with a destination wedding unfortunately there will be family and friends that wont be able to make it.

 

Make sure you let her know that you will be showing her pictures and video.

 

Good Luck and best wishes.

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Sorry to hear about that post on your wedding website. Stay strong and dont let something like that or anything else ruin the happiness of your wedding. What matters is you and you future husband.

 

As for your grandmother it sad to hear that she will not make it but with a destination wedding unfortunately there will be family and friends that wont be able to make it.

 

Make sure you let her know that you will be showing her pictures and video.

 

Good Luck and best wishes.

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Lady,

 

That is SO dumb. I won't even speculate regarding "motive" (yes, it could be jealousy, immaturity, a 'joke' or WHATEVER), but the fact is, it's straight up dumb. Do NOT let it in.. this person is awful.. because, even if this is what they TRULY felt about you, deep deep down (which I'm sure it isn't), then a reasonable (and reasonably intelligent, and reasonably 'good' person) would take your Fi aside and tell him quietly OR keep their mouth shut entirely. Because they did not do this, they are simply, dumb. And their comment really doesn't mean anything. I would tell your Fi though.. simply because I think you could probably use some support, a hug and a pick me up!

 

Who cares girl! You are going to have the most fantastic wedding ever, and it sounds like you have SO many other people who love you, (and who are going to be over the moon excited to be at/send well wishes for your wedding)!

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i really cant believe someone would do that.its someone whos single and does,nt know how important things like that are and either one of his friends or a jealous ex.

 

you know different try not to let it worry you.

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You have lots of support here...it's clearly someone who is jealous. Delete and it and don't look back....they aren't worth it, and they are trying to get you upset. Don't let them see that it has phased you at all.

 

As for Grandma, find a good friend who is willing to videotape the ceremony for you, and send her lots of pictures!!!! Hang in there!!!!

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