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Does anyone else turn into a weepy sap when their fiance/husband goes out of town?

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#11 Patti

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    Posted 09 December 2009 - 07:05 PM

    MY FI travels quite a bit and of course, I miss him when he's gone, however, we work together and even ride together, therefore, I don't really have a lot of time to myself. I take advantage of his away time to do just what I want to do. He just got back this morning (2 am). I tell you, I think I'm marrying a crazy man LOL. He decided to buy a new car - in Chicago - and we live in Dallas. I thought it was bad enough that he was flying there and driving it all the way back by himself - but it got worse. He decided to trade his in. So, he took off on Monday morning and drove straight through to Chicago - 16 hours. He spent the night, got the new car and headed back to Dallas yesterday. He was supposed to have stopped and spent the night, but he didn't. He scared the haydees out of me when he came in, but I was so thankful to see him home safely. BTW, the car is beautiful and he's really proud of it.

    #12 Girasole

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      Posted 09 December 2009 - 07:23 PM

      My FI luckily doesn't travel too often but when he does it's a month at a time & I hate it! We spend so much time together I get bored without him around.
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      #13 hat0112

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        Posted 09 December 2009 - 07:31 PM

        When my FI is alway I am a sad mess. It just feels so lonely being in the house without him!
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        #14 Lisa DSO

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          Posted 09 December 2009 - 08:37 PM

          Originally Posted by amygirl1169
          FI has only gone away once or twice for a few days and yep, I get super sappy and miss him SOOOO much.

          But when I'm away, traveling for business, I am fine. I think I just fill the void with shopping! lol
          I agree, it is completely different when YOU are the one out of town.

          Originally Posted by shellk
          omg you need to read other threads i have been on this week.my fi is working away all of this week not home until friday.today i have felt really emotional then to top it off i got home to an email from our wedding co-ordinator that we have been waiting for to make our arrangements and i cant even speak to him for the next few hrs either.

          i dont get it im really independant and not emotional what has this man done to me lol.

          come on girls we can do this they will be home soon and the time of our lives is coming up
          Thanks, this made me feel a lot better!

          I'm so glad to hear that I am not the only one who feels this way :-)

          #15 *Linds*

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            Posted 09 December 2009 - 09:37 PM

            I'm the same way, but I am the one who is usually traveling. When I am away, even if it is just for a night, I am all depressed and sad. I guess its a good thing that we are missing our guys! There would probably be something wrong if we didn't
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            #16 rodent


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              Posted 09 December 2009 - 09:49 PM

              on a normal night or weekend, we just do our own thing. We both like space. But when he is gone I sort of fall apart. It took me a while to notice the pattern. I get super messy, eat weird stuff & can't sleep. I also tend to get wrapped up in a ridiculous project. Now that I know that's how I get when he is gone, it doesn't bother me so much. The time apart is worth it for that first warm hug. I call it the "airport hug" but it can happen after a car trip, too.

              #17 nsbride2010

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                Posted 09 December 2009 - 10:08 PM

                my FI is a pro athlete, and whenever he leaves (which is often) I always feel mopey and sad!! I know how ya feel sweetie, it sucks!
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                #18 *Lo*

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                  Posted 09 December 2009 - 10:33 PM

                  Last year my FI moved to Boston for school and I stayed in Toronto because of my job and it SUCKED so much. But in the end I kind of got used to it, so now it doesn't bother me if we are apart. He's actually going to Australia for 3 weeks in January and I can't go because I have to work...so I will be sad, but mostly just that I don't get to go to Australia I think!!!

                  I found I just had to stay busy and always have stuff planned to see friends, mani/pedis definitely, and just have stuff to do, and you know you will see him again so enjoy some time to yourself!!

                  #19 SusieQ

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                    Posted 10 December 2009 - 08:29 AM

                    Yup count me in as a sappy silly soul. FI was out of town 2 weeks ago and I was an emotional mess... I couldn't sleep and I cried over a broken toe nail. I am an emotional person however I have never needed anyone in my life, until I met my FI.

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