Crying at your wedding? Help me!
Posted 26 November 2009 - 05:14 PM
So I have a huge fear of being unable to control my emotions at my upcoming wedding. I am an emotional person and generally a big cryer. This wouldn't be so bad if I didn't get big red splotches all over my face when I cry. I am so scared of looking like a blotchy freak in all my pictures from the ceremony. I don't even think I am going to be able to give a speech! At my engagement party when I tried, I broke down in tears. Anyone else suffer from this fear or get the red splotches? Any suggestions or ideas are most welcome!
Posted 26 November 2009 - 05:33 PM
Posted 26 November 2009 - 06:05 PM
But when it came down to the wedding day I was so relaxed that I wasn't in a crying mood. I cried when I fell down the stairs (before I started getting ready, phew). When it came to walking down the aisle, when I saw Steve I started to well up. I smiled and the tears went away. Just focus on smiliing and the tears won't be able to come.
On the flip side, if you're not able to smile through the tears, remember that photoshop can be a brides best friend. :-)
Posted 26 November 2009 - 06:21 PM
My worry is having my toast! Many types of alcohol give me those beautiful red splotches you speak of. How crappy is that to be afraid of your own champagne toast on the beach? lol I'd rather be blotchy from crying than looking like an alcoholic...
Posted 26 November 2009 - 06:51 PM
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Posted 28 November 2009 - 11:35 AM
Just keep a tissue on hand and a smile on your face, hopefully the tears and red face won't make an appearance. Plus if it's windy like it was at mine that will help!!
Posted 28 November 2009 - 01:37 PM
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