What to do to help financially....
Posted 04 November 2009 - 01:03 PM
Maybe when you talk to them you can bring up loan, or as a christmas present for them and you.
Be sure to let them know that the wedding will happen regardless, because you have made the commitment to the others.
Good luck! I hope everything works out.
Posted 04 November 2009 - 01:04 PM
Posted 04 November 2009 - 01:08 PM
Posted 04 November 2009 - 03:02 PM
At this point I am at such a loss. I just never would imagine getting married without my family there. But now there are so many booked. I don't know what the correct way is to handle this. The only thing that comes close would be getting married here and still going on the trip as a celebration. But would that make people mad? ARggghh!!!
Posted 04 November 2009 - 04:24 PM
I am bummed for you. You could do both. A legal ceremony at home (just invite your family) and have your destination wedding. We got legally married at home and it didn't take away from our DW. Maybe you can just do that and go out to eat with them? Im sorry you are going through this.
Posted 04 November 2009 - 04:51 PM
Posted 04 November 2009 - 11:50 PM
| Originally Posted by amandseth |
kate.com has got it, I think. Do the legal wedding here with an officiant and your family present. My officiant did have a ceremony where we exchanged the rings and said vows and everything. Then have a symbolic ceremony at your destination.
Posted 05 November 2009 - 12:11 AM
So.... where is your destination wedding going to be? How's the rest of your planning?
Posted 05 November 2009 - 12:14 AM
I guess this isn't totally perfect but I do think it will ease the stress a lot. Plus, maybe I will be a little less nervous at the actual wedding.
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