So maybe I was in over my head.....(long) Updated
Posted 28 October 2009 - 12:13 PM
Posted 28 October 2009 - 01:12 PM
I think that you should trust your instincts absolutely and think about how he is treating his ex and kids in a passive manner, you don't ever want to be in that situation.
Good luck, I'm sorry that you're in this tough decision!
Posted 28 October 2009 - 05:52 PM
If you had just met him today, do you still think it would turn into a relationship?
I was dating a guy who was a doll in High School, but eventually turned to drugs, and I couldn't handle that anymore. So I thought "If I was just meeting this guy, and I saw all of the drugs, I would turn and run in the opposite direction!" And run I did And I haven't looked back, not once, because I know I made the right choice.
Do what you need to do for YOU, and don't let anyone else's decisions stand in the way. Good luck sweetheart! *hugs*
Posted 28 October 2009 - 08:15 PM
Posted 28 October 2009 - 11:25 PM
Be strong and listen to yourself, bc in the end of it all, you really cant lie to yourself forever.
Good luck and I wish you all the best in whichever path you choose!
Posted 29 October 2009 - 08:07 AM
Anyway, I watched my sister in JA, she just looks so drained and refused to spend a dime on herself, while that idiot was in the giftshops buying himself toys for the pool and other various crap for himself. I pray every day that she kicks him to the curb. She worked hard for a good future and it's all going down the tube.
Like I said, you have to worry about yourself now. No one else is going to.
Posted 29 October 2009 - 09:46 AM
Posted 30 October 2009 - 12:47 PM
Posted 30 October 2009 - 03:36 PM
| Originally Posted by big3n09 |
.. I have not always been as faithful as I should have and I forgave him with the understanding that it never happens again. ..
Sorry to be brutally honest but it doesn't sound like either of you should be getting married. *shrug*
Posted 31 October 2009 - 03:30 PM
Happy planning and living to you ALL!!!
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