AHR or no AHR??
Posted 25 October 2009 - 07:20 PM
As I have been reading more threads and info on this site, it seems like most people have an AHR. I had never even thought of having one or heard about one before. I just wanted to do a quick survey...
Are you having one?
Formal or casual?
What made you decide to have one if you are?
Thanks as usual for all your input.
Posted 25 October 2009 - 07:26 PM
We decided to have one because we didn't invite everyone to the wedding.
I kinda wish I would have invited everyone to the wedding and not done the AHR. I feel like it's an added stress I don't want and an extra bill I don't feel like dealing with.
On the positive side, I like that I get to have a second party and wear my dress again.
It's all about the pros and cons. I think in some ways it's great and in others it's just a head ache. I know a lot of brides loved having their AHR. I'm sure I'll be happy once it gets here and I have a good time but right now (1 day before we leave for wedding) I just wish we only had the wedding to think about!!
Posted 25 October 2009 - 07:54 PM
Posted 30 October 2009 - 03:30 PM
I think everyone and their situation is different so don't feel you have to have an AHR if you don't want. I know for a lot of brides it's just not the in the budget. We compromised with our parents and said we'd pay for the wedding if they'd take care of the reception and they agreed. Otherwise I don't think we could afford both.
Posted 30 October 2009 - 04:00 PM
I know a lot of brides on here are pressured into having one but you really need to decide if it's right for you and your man!
Posted 03 November 2009 - 01:37 PM
Beaches Negril, 9/24/2011.
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