What would you do?
Posted 13 October 2009 - 04:06 PM
In your case, she has not been there when you needed her. Now that she may need YOUR support and wants an invite...here she comes. Nonsense. Your wedding is one of the most important days of your life...you want to be surrounded by the people that truly love and care about you. Leave this so-called friend and her negative energy far behind.
Posted 15 October 2009 - 03:34 PM
Posted 21 October 2009 - 12:10 AM
If you really truly miss her friendship and think you could have a chance at working things out(you know better than anyone how she would react to the confrontation about her being less than a friend when she needed you), I would wait until after the wedding because then you can focus on the friendship and not wondering what her agenda is, such as hoping for an invitation or a job lead.
Also, don't feel bad about not inviting her, if things have been as weird in your relationship as you say, then it would probably be really awkward for you, her, and everyone else for her to be there.
Posted 21 October 2009 - 11:27 PM
Posted 22 October 2009 - 06:42 AM
You're both moving in different directions.... Yours sounds very exciting and positive, focus on that.
Posted 22 October 2009 - 08:44 AM
| Originally Posted by ChristinaP |
It kind of sounds like you knew what you wanted to do with this "friend" before you searched for advice on the situation. Listen to your gut. I am sure there is a reason you decided to not invite her to this very important event- maybe because you want the people around you who love and appreciate you ALL the time, not just when it suits them.
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