| Originally Posted by dragonfly |
We have always had issues over his family, because they never liked the fact that I was white, they are not close to our son, they don't even remember his birthday, and I was hoping this would change things by spending time with us, and Liam, and they would learn to love him.
I don't know how I am even going to be able to look at all of them right now!! I am just so angry and hurt.
Oh, and I must add - how can ANYONE turn away or think less of sweet, sweet Liam. That pisses me off most of all. He didn't ask for any of that. That is just horrible of them. It makes me absolutely sick to hear so I can't imagine what you and Everton must feel (and eventually Liam, if he isn't already aware of it).
Anyways, I am so sorry to hear all of this. Just remember that you can't control other people's actions. Ultimately we are all the creators of our own destiny and the last thing you need is to be sucked into their b.s. They are unfortunately choosing to create a grim reality for themselves in regards to this wedding and family connections. As sad/frustrating/hurtful, etc. as it must be I would say go on planning your gorgeous wedding without them. And it will be just that - gorgeous.
Best wishes to all of you,