Guests who forget this is YOUR wedding, not theirs...
Posted 26 September 2009 - 04:48 AM
You know what is getting to me the most is that I'm not the kind of person to put up with anyone's BS. I'm a nurse (almost, done with school in May) and have been thick skinned all my life. I don't know why all of a sudden I'm letting peoples' opinions get to me. Hopefully it will get easier as time goes by (only been engaged 1 month). It's very comforting to know I'm not the only one with difficult/selfish people in my life. I honestly think a lot of them are jealous that they had their wedding/reception in some boring church/banquet hall, while all of us are going to be in paradise for ours! Here's to all of us who have stepped out of the box! Cheers!
Posted 26 September 2009 - 08:12 AM
keep smiling your the bigger person
Posted 26 September 2009 - 01:19 PM
Posted 26 September 2009 - 01:45 PM
Wow lmao! No one is forcing anyone to come. But I dont wanna hear your constant complaining either!
Posted 26 September 2009 - 07:39 PM
| Originally Posted by slapsappyhappy |
LOL! The jellyfish... I have heard so much but that tops the list! I used to defend "why are you having it in Mexico when you can have it here?" with "it is too expensive here(NY)", but then one of my "friends" said, "well of course it is cheaper for you when you are passing the cost on to the guests!" OH NO SHE DIDN"T!!!!!! I could not believe that! Now I am not even justifying it, I am so sick of people complaining. Come if you want, if you don't stay home!!!
Posted 27 September 2009 - 01:51 PM
| Originally Posted by melnickovich |
Thanks everyone for the encouragement!
-Taguania, I've had people say that to me too, "why do you have to go to Mexico, why can't you just have it around here?" In fact when I told a few people it was going to be Mexico, they said "oh, well we will have to get you to change your mind about that." Seriously, they have all had their weddings (some of them 2 weddings, lol) and done what they wanted, now it's our turn. Maybe I just need to drastically cut my guest list, haha
Posted 27 September 2009 - 02:22 PM
Posted 27 September 2009 - 06:56 PM
I will not tolerate complainers at my wedding. My sentiment is unless they are the groom, their presence is not a necessity. If they come, I don't want to hear a peep of whining about it. If they can't accomplish that, they should STAY HOME and save me the headache and the money.
Speaking of which, I would have put that person in their place who said that the bridegroom is passing the cost onto the guest; that is absolutely OBNOXIOUS
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