I may have to ask a friend not to come
Posted 08 September 2009 - 02:24 PM
I have a gfriend that I am pretty close with and have been friends with for over 7 years. She was my first single friend after leaving a 15 year marriage. I really enjoy her company most of the time, however she is very jealous of other gfriends. She takes total dislike to anyone that spends time with me that she doesn't. She makes very rude comments about other friends, she makes rude comments about family members.
She told me that she doesn't want certian people to come to our wedding because she said she isn't sure that she can keep her mouth shut for a week about how much she dislikes some of my friends and my FI's SIL. She hates these people for no reason.
My FI has heard enough, he is such a trooper and doesn't say poop about anything. He told me last nite that maybe I should ask her not to come if she feels that she doesn't have enough respect for us to keep her mouth shut. I can not disagree and I am feeling sad because I think I have hit the end of the road with her.
I really don't need the stress of her behavior and worrying about her control issues.
Posted 08 September 2009 - 02:48 PM
You don't need drama. Period. And if she wants to get all confrontational with people during your WEDDING, then she isn't really that good of a friend.
Posted 08 September 2009 - 03:02 PM
Posted 08 September 2009 - 03:10 PM
Honestly it came down to I wanted to have a good time and not have to worry the whole week about people fighting, being offended or people not having a good time.
You and your FI need to be happy and have a stress-free time!!
Posted 08 September 2009 - 03:14 PM
I mean, you would hope that she could behave herself and be all in moderation and whatnot - but you know your friend best. And if you think she's going to cause trouble the whole week, maybe its best to count her out.
But its hard asking people not to come, especially if you care about them.
Posted 08 September 2009 - 03:44 PM
I have to figure out how I am going to do it, but I am no longer on the fence she cann't come... She would drink her face off and insult the hell out of certian people and I'd be babysitting her trying to keep the peace.
I am not good with confrontation, oh well I am not good with the stress of her either.
I also know she will probably not speak to me again.... Oh well.... This weekend sher really sealed her faith when she asked my FI why his brother married such a fat ugly cow. My FI said that the mother of my brother's children and walked away. So yeah I am not broken up just sad to say good bye. I was holding on to something from my past that helped me through a very difficult time.
Posted 08 September 2009 - 03:47 PM
Posted 08 September 2009 - 03:49 PM
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