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#31 Melidell

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    Posted 06 September 2009 - 06:15 PM

    Sending good thoughts your way- I'm sure it will blow over. We all have these fights from time to time. I think sometimes it's healthy to clear the air a bit. Your Mom's probably right, give him some space!
    I think it's kind of cute that he made you dinner even though you guys are fighting.

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    #32 MilitaryMrs.s-to be

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      Posted 06 September 2009 - 06:19 PM

      Sorry to hear things arn't so great, but I'm sure it'll all blow over....I think fighting is actually healthy for relationships, things can't be peachy all the time :) Best of luck to you!!

      #33 DSHayes

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        Posted 06 September 2009 - 06:32 PM

        Yes SSNM you are absolutely right...if he could tell me he is feeling better about the situation instead of ignoring me..I could deal with that better..

        I am an only child who never took likely to conflict...I would rather just move on with things an try to never cross that bridge again...instead we waste time and energy being angry when there is so much more to love each other for...
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        #34 Christine

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        Posted 06 September 2009 - 06:41 PM

        DSHayes, I am going to move this thread for you, it should be in the chit chat/venting area. Not the newbies section.
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        #35 YaelM


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          Posted 06 September 2009 - 07:44 PM

          Im glad to see he cooked for you :)

          I think giving him space is the best right now and he will come around. I know when im mad i just need time to myself and it takes me a while to let things go or be ready to talk about it

          He loves you and will talk to you when he is ready

          We are all here to keep your mind off it :)

          #36 jk1101

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            Posted 06 September 2009 - 07:48 PM

            DSHayes -
            I have similar types of arguments with FI -
            If you are at the point of planning your wedding - It would take a lot to have a relationship ending fight. He just needs time to get over himself. Give him the space, chill out for a bit. If he's feeding you, that's definitely a good sign!
            All good thoughts to you!

            #37 itsfinallyhere

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              Posted 07 September 2009 - 08:21 AM

              DSHayes, I am glad things are a little better. And I know what you mean about this forum keeping you busy! LOL it has done the same for me on many occassions!

              I just want to check in and see how things are going. Let him cool off, he probably needs it and it is really good that he does that, otherwise words might be said that are not meant, and sometimes they are what hurt the most. He obviously still cares (mmmm steak!) so when he starts to thaw start to commincate again. Talking to each other will be most important, to maintain any relationship. Miscommunication and misunderstanding of simple little thigs can cause a lot of damage. But I think you guys will be ok, you can tell there is genuine love, caring and respect between you. Good Luck, I know everything will sork out in the end, it is just getting thru to the end that is the hard part. But after things will be better than before!

              #38 SusieQ

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                Posted 07 September 2009 - 09:43 AM

                Hang in there girl... give him some space. Let him remember why he loves you so much and deal with why he is so mad.

                #39 vlynnw

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                  Posted 07 September 2009 - 10:05 AM

                  I'm sorry to hear about the fight and how you are feeling. I'm sure this will blow over and it will just be one of those tough times that the two of you go through. At least you can see the positive in the little things, I'm glad you got your steak! I understand what you mean with wishing that you could just blow things over instead of being angry and letting it get out of hand. I've totally been there where I get to that point and I'm thinking why am I this mad, yet I just can't let it go still. I'm sure he'll talk when he is ready, remember when guys get really mad the last thing they want to do is talk right away and sort things out they need some time and space to just think and vent on their own.
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                  #40 DSHayes

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                    Posted 07 September 2009 - 10:47 AM

                    Hey everyone...

                    Today he had to work 1/2 day so he left withouth my kiss goodbye...(we never do that)..so unfortunately he is still upset...

                    He is not intereseted in going out after work either...so more space I guess he needs...

                    Wishing for a do...over...LOL

                    Well one good thing ladies...laundry is done and complete...been putting if off for days...and I guess I can catch up on my LIFETIME MOVIES...
                    Future: Desiree S-Hayes

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