Even love makes mistakes
Posted 06 September 2009 - 06:15 PM
I think it's kind of cute that he made you dinner even though you guys are fighting.
Posted 06 September 2009 - 06:19 PM
Posted 06 September 2009 - 06:32 PM
I am an only child who never took likely to conflict...I would rather just move on with things an try to never cross that bridge again...instead we waste time and energy being angry when there is so much more to love each other for...
Posted 06 September 2009 - 06:41 PM
Posted 06 September 2009 - 07:44 PM
I think giving him space is the best right now and he will come around. I know when im mad i just need time to myself and it takes me a while to let things go or be ready to talk about it
He loves you and will talk to you when he is ready
We are all here to keep your mind off it
Posted 06 September 2009 - 07:48 PM
I have similar types of arguments with FI -
If you are at the point of planning your wedding - It would take a lot to have a relationship ending fight. He just needs time to get over himself. Give him the space, chill out for a bit. If he's feeding you, that's definitely a good sign!
All good thoughts to you!
Posted 07 September 2009 - 08:21 AM
I just want to check in and see how things are going. Let him cool off, he probably needs it and it is really good that he does that, otherwise words might be said that are not meant, and sometimes they are what hurt the most. He obviously still cares (mmmm steak!) so when he starts to thaw start to commincate again. Talking to each other will be most important, to maintain any relationship. Miscommunication and misunderstanding of simple little thigs can cause a lot of damage. But I think you guys will be ok, you can tell there is genuine love, caring and respect between you. Good Luck, I know everything will sork out in the end, it is just getting thru to the end that is the hard part. But after things will be better than before!
Posted 07 September 2009 - 10:05 AM
Posted 07 September 2009 - 10:47 AM
Today he had to work 1/2 day so he left withouth my kiss goodbye...(we never do that)..so unfortunately he is still upset...
He is not intereseted in going out after work either...so more space I guess he needs...
Wishing for a do...over...LOL
Well one good thing ladies...laundry is done and complete...been putting if off for days...and I guess I can catch up on my LIFETIME MOVIES...
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