I want to cry.....
Posted 03 September 2009 - 01:42 PM
Posted 03 September 2009 - 01:46 PM
Posted 03 September 2009 - 01:50 PM
Posted 03 September 2009 - 02:12 PM
Posted 03 September 2009 - 02:21 PM
I like Amanda's idea about having her bring a friend with. Or maybe you can let her decide what is more important to her? If you don't mind if she would miss the wedding then maybe she could stay with a friend during your trip so she can still go to prom, otherwise she might surprise you and chose the wedding over the prom, and if so, if she is in control of making that decision then there won't be any resentment.
Does she know about the conflict now, is she upset? Good Luck!
Posted 03 September 2009 - 02:27 PM
Posted 03 September 2009 - 02:41 PM
I think it is sweet you feel bad, it shows that you will make a great step mom to her. Remember it was her responsibility to check on the date and she is old enough to do so. Senior prom is a super big deal, but so is a wedding. She has quite a few months to get over it, but the question does come into play...would your FI let her stay home and go to prom if she really wants to go?
Posted 03 September 2009 - 02:46 PM
If it were me, I'd me much happier to go on a vacation, than to my prom. Is your FI going to talk to her?
The idea of having her have some friends come is a great one if that will work. Then she won't feel like she's missing out.
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