Sorry I changed my mind about you being MOH
Posted 30 August 2009 - 08:37 PM
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Posted 30 August 2009 - 08:59 PM
| Originally Posted by petunia |
Are you close to your fiance's daughter? Do you hope to be? I think it's wonderful that you initially wanted her to be your Maid of Honor. What a truly special way to start your new family. I'm sorry, but I think that you should keep her in that position of honor. In a couple of years you may not even be talking to the girls who are close friends now, but your future step daughter is going to be in your life forever. Is it really worth it to risk hurting her feelings?
Posted 30 August 2009 - 09:00 PM
If this was my situation, I would keep her as my moh, my best friend wouldnt mind stepping in but not having the big title, she knows where she stands in my heart and in my life, she's an adult and gets it.
I wish you luck and I hope it all works out for you!!
Posted 30 August 2009 - 09:12 PM
I wouldn't even bother having the conversation...
Let the friend you want to be MOH know that she is the MOH. Then when you are sorting out nitty gritty little white lies will heklp to smooth over things - I doubt she will even notice... "I want xxx to stand closest as it will balance out the pictures with height", ""xxx needs to sign as a witness as you need to be over the legal age to sign a legal document", "I dont want to dress you in a style thats too old for you, you should look young, hot and fresh - how bout you wear this dress insted?"
Posted 30 August 2009 - 09:19 PM
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