| Originally Posted by TammyB |
I'm with you on this as well. NONE of my family attended our wedding. And my best friend flaked out too. We have 6 guest there and to be honest, I was really sad at first that no one from my side went. Fast forward to the week we were in Cabo, and I could have cared less. We had fun, did what we wanted to do and I opened my eyes to think "if we really matter the "X" then they would have been there". I got a ton of slack from people too about them thinking I should have an AHR but these are the same peope who could have gone to the wedding. So piss on them.. :-)
But back to the original post - WE support you and understand the need to chose what you envision as the "perfect wedding". It's hard, esp witht he over-analyzing cuz I drive myself insane with that shit! But deep down, you know what you want, and I say go with it. Good luck!