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Am I wrong?? I don't want the B#$ch to come!!


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#21 NyBeachBride

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    Posted 30 August 2009 - 03:24 PM

    if the blood cousin doesnt mind then i say dont invite her................my situation is a lil similar in the fact that i dont want someone there either....the best mans GF is a huge itch!!! erggg....we never hang out and anytime i see her she ignores me and never speaks to me...she has come to a couple of my events because the best man brought her and she sits there with an attitude and doesnt even say hi to me and its my event!! wtf! so i told me fi i dont want her there but its hard because his best man is his bff and doesnt want to hurt his feelings.....so i asked the best man if shes coming and he said yes, thats my girl if shes not invited im not invited, so i said relax, i neveer said she wasnt invited but i wanted to ask since i get the feelign she doesnt liek me and i dont want that vibe at my wedding.....he said she wont act liek that...but whatever...im goign to tell the videographer and photog to not include her in any pics at all because i dont want her in my memories lol
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    #22 islandbride317

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      Posted 30 August 2009 - 06:47 PM

      Quote:
      Originally Posted by Lashawn

      ISLANDBRIDE....I really like you, we could definitely go out for drinks if we lived near each other LOL. Great comment! A lady after my own heart.

      Actually ladies I really appreciated ALL of the comments. Thanks so much for reassuring me that I am not being an uptight bridezilla. She makes my blood curl.. my FI has a bond with her sons (their father is "away" for 22 years!!) so he has really stepped in and shows them that they still have a male figure in their lives so that they don't stray. This psycho b*tch threatened that they will NEVER be allowed around him as long as I am in the picture.. and that the 17 yr old can't be his bestman, unless he finds another bride..so sad that she wouldn't put her sons feelings before hers.

      Thanks for letting me vent
      LASHAWN -- I really like you too, lady, and if this chick needs straightening out, just say the word! Myself and the other "scrappers-undercover" here in the BDW won't stand for such ridiculousness! Stay strong, and soldier on, girl! And, I would absolutely take you up on that drink if it were possible...cheers and salut to you across the miles!

      #23 slapsappyhappy

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        Posted 30 August 2009 - 08:43 PM

        I agree, you do not need drama! forget her, your FI will not even notice she is not there esp if you have not hung out with her in years!

        #24 Islandbride2b

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          Posted 30 August 2009 - 09:09 PM

          games and drama.. not my cup of tea!



          send her an invite.. just with the wrong info!! haha.. or would ??!!

          #25 SSNM

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            Posted 30 August 2009 - 09:44 PM

            Quote:
            Originally Posted by Islandbride2b
            games and drama.. not my cup of tea!



            send her an invite.. just with the wrong info!! haha.. or would ??!!
            lol...Yea find the address of some brothel on the other side of the country and put that on her invite! I'm sure she'll fit right in.

            #26 Lashawn

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              Posted 30 August 2009 - 10:03 PM

              Quote:
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              lol...Yea find the address of some brothel on the other side of the country and put that on her invite! I'm sure she'll fit right in.
              LOL Too funny!!! I like it.

              #27 inspiredfyre

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                Posted 31 August 2009 - 12:48 AM

                Ha! In no way are you wrong! Especially to invite her into an intimate destination wedding? forget about it! She can cry all she wants! Don't feel bad about it, and just be forward with your family, you guys can only invite so many people, and it's hard to choose, but decisions have been made! She tried to set your FI up with another woman, anyway! how incredibly awful!

                If it were me, i'd even rub it in her face a little, lol! :) You've been gracious to just leave it as it is, she shouldn't play dumb, and try to victimize herself.

                Girl, you've got more important things to worry about!! Now, how are your other planning things coming along, accessories, shoes? Flowers? Serious, don't let her rain on your beautiful wedding planning parade! Best of luck, LaShawn!
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                #28 Lashawn

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                  Posted 31 August 2009 - 02:55 AM

                  Inspired.. I soo rubbed her face in it. I spent about 5 minutes feeling bad, but I am over it. Things are coming along fine, thanks so much for asking :). Wow, your day is right around the corner!! I am sure you will be a beautiful bride.




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