Posted 21 August 2009 - 11:26 AM
Posted 21 August 2009 - 11:56 AM
When FI & I were bummed about our friends telling us they wouldn't be able to go...we even offered to pay for our 2 best friends (they happen to be dating, too)...they STILL said they wouldn't go...even after FI said they wouldn't need to worry about paying us back anytime soon, just whenever they manage to save up the money! With enough advance it's definitely possible to make a trip happen...it just requires some self control & planning...putting away a certain amount of money each month & budgeting your monthly expenses...I guess some people can't adopt this concept, though..? Even if it were just you & your FI...you'd still have an amazing time together!
Posted 21 August 2009 - 02:00 PM
Posted 21 August 2009 - 02:03 PM
Posted 22 August 2009 - 07:32 AM
Posted 22 August 2009 - 11:06 AM
Granted, I only had twenty people at my wedding, four of whom lived on the island already, but those twenty people made it the most amazing day, and in the end that's what will matter the most when you look back.
Posted 22 August 2009 - 11:09 AM
You are allowed to secretly bummed... but stay away from guilting others to come. Whoever does come, will be apart of a very special wedding!
And also remember... it only takes TWO to marry! The rest is bonus:)
Posted 24 August 2009 - 02:26 AM
Girls I just want to thank you all for your opinions on this matter. It makes me feel better that I am not the only one feeling this way. I have made the decision to not worry about it anymore. We want the wedding on the beach in Mexico and if people feel that they can not afford it. I will just throw a party at the house when we get back.
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