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#381 shellk

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    Posted 12 November 2009 - 06:14 PM

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    I feel terrible tonight you guys... have y'all got your flowers all sorted out? Do you know where your reception with be or rehearsal dinner time/place? Do you have any idea of what the cost will be on the day. The WC at our resort has not been returning calls/emails and none of this is set up and 2 days ago I got pissed and told my TA who called her sup and now I just feel like a huge old pain in the ass. Am I a jerk for being concerned about this??
    dont beat yourself up for feeling bad.all of the things you have mentioned are big things but you still have lots of time so breath and wait for the wc to sort it.

    im not sure how your resort wc works but ours does,nt contact us to make any arrangements until 1-2mths prior to the day.just remember they are professionals and they will contact you in pleanty of time and everything will be sorted.are there any reviews on here for your resort?has anyone else had problems with the wc?

    #382 shellk

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      Posted 12 November 2009 - 06:24 PM

      susieq,glad your fitting went well.thats maybe why your still not sleeping you got lots of things going round in your head.does the wine not help?hope you have a better night tonight.

      i need to shave my legs prior to my fitting on saturday otherwise the lady will be like omg.

      #383 SusieQ

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        Posted 12 November 2009 - 07:31 PM

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        susieq,glad your fitting went well.thats maybe why your still not sleeping you got lots of things going round in your head.does the wine not help?hope you have a better night tonight.

        i need to shave my legs prior to my fitting on saturday otherwise the lady will be like omg.


        No I went to bed around 10pm and i wake up and I can not get back to sleep. It drives me crazy and eventually wears me down. I have been like this since I was about 35 yrs old so about 7 years. I go for months I am fine and sleep through the night and then a few months of only being able to sleep 4 to 5 hours. I hate it!!!! I refuse to take sleeping pills so I deal with the lack of sleep.
        True confession here, FI is going away for a week and leaving me home to deal with his emotional 15 year old and I am just dreading it. he leaves on the 23rd for 6 nites and she has started with the attitude already. I had a arguement with her last night i came home and she was cutting apple on the counter top and I asked her to use one of the dozen or so cutting boards we have and she rolled her eyes and continued. I pulled out cutting board and she made the final cut on the counter top. Had a discusion about that last nite. Then this morning she was on MSN and she isn't allowed in the morning because she is always late for school. Oh got the bathroom door slammed in my face. So just waiting for FI to come home he is dropping her off at dance for 5 hours yippee..... Tonite is date nite... unfortunately we have to discuss these issues and deal with them. She has been very difficult at times... Yeah what I don't share with my girls? Thanks for listening

        #384 vdaybride

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          Posted 12 November 2009 - 07:53 PM

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          No I went to bed around 10pm and i wake up and I can not get back to sleep. It drives me crazy and eventually wears me down. I have been like this since I was about 35 yrs old so about 7 years. I go for months I am fine and sleep through the night and then a few months of only being able to sleep 4 to 5 hours. I hate it!!!! I refuse to take sleeping pills so I deal with the lack of sleep.
          True confession here, FI is going away for a week and leaving me home to deal with his emotional 15 year old and I am just dreading it. he leaves on the 23rd for 6 nites and she has started with the attitude already. I had a arguement with her last night i came home and she was cutting apple on the counter top and I asked her to use one of the dozen or so cutting boards we have and she rolled her eyes and continued. I pulled out cutting board and she made the final cut on the counter top. Had a discusion about that last nite. Then this morning she was on MSN and she isn't allowed in the morning because she is always late for school. Oh got the bathroom door slammed in my face. So just waiting for FI to come home he is dropping her off at dance for 5 hours yippee..... Tonite is date nite... unfortunately we have to discuss these issues and deal with them. She has been very difficult at times... Yeah what I don't share with my girls? Thanks for listening
          Sorry that she is being difficult doors slammed, cutting on the counter top.. difficult position that you are in. Maybe you can kill her... NO I don't mean that kind of kill her!!..kill her with kindness. Is your FI supportive of conquering the problem. THere is nothing worse than being treated unfairly by someone and when you tell someone, they are in denial and looking at you like you must be mistaken. I hope you work things out and she sees just how wonderful you are :). Try not to take it personal. She is just acting out because she is jealous of your relationship with her dad. At that age, they want to be the apples of their daddys eyes.. at least I did. I was and always will be a daddys girl. Good luck talking it over with your FI
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          #385 vdaybride

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            Posted 12 November 2009 - 07:55 PM

            Guess who booked a boudoir shoot for December 16th>>>ME! I am soooo nervous. I am going to have to take a few swigs of something to loosen up. I am excited and nervous at the same time.
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            #386 FutureMsMoulton

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              Posted 12 November 2009 - 09:34 PM

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              Guess who booked a boudoir shoot for December 16th>>>ME! I am soooo nervous. I am going to have to take a few swigs of something to loosen up. I am excited and nervous at the same time.
              That is cool.... I can't do one...no confidence, but have a lot of fun!!

              Susie- Sorry to hear that you future step daughter is a pain in the bum already. I hate to say it but I think its going to get worse before it gets better.

              #387 SusieQ

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                Posted 12 November 2009 - 09:54 PM

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                That is cool.... I can't do one...no confidence, but have a lot of fun!!

                Susie- Sorry to hear that you future step daughter is a pain in the bum already. I hate to say it but I think its going to get worse before it gets better.
                Oh I know, she has lived with me for over three years already... i am getting too use "the you're making my life hell". Because of me she dances at one of the best dance studios in our area and the tune of 7000 a year!!! she has the most beautiful bedroom a girl could ever ask for and clothes to kill for ... Yeah I know don't take it personal!!! I spoil her and so does dad... she has everything and she is just at that age where the hell with you, your stupid!!!

                I am trying to not let it bother me... just feeling a little sensitive today. FI is amazing about the issue he totally sees her abuse and he calls her on it and grounds her when needed. He loves his daughter however he isn't blind, thnk god.

                #388 Krista_H

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                  Posted 13 November 2009 - 01:13 AM

                  FutureMsMoulton is right it will get worse before it gets better, but it WILL get better!!

                  futuremrsgoodrich - I'm starting to feel the same way. When we were getting the legal documents together I emailed the resort and didn't get any response. Had to get my TA involved and finally got it all worked out. We sent the docs to the resort and I know they got them, but haven't heard anything. I emailed the WC on Monday (or Tuesday - all my days seems to be running into each other) and haven't heard anything. I'm starting to get very frustrated, but trying really hard not to let it get to me. Just means that I might have to get others involved to get the ball rolling, which I was hoping to avoid - again.

                  #389 SusieQ

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                    Posted 13 November 2009 - 09:13 AM

                    Ladies same here! I do the first email and the second request email and then the TA... finally I get a response... Why the hell does it have to be that difficult? I am getting fustrated and peeved. My questions are simple "how many people can you sit at a table in the restaurant, are they round our square? (tables that is lol) daaaaaaah can you not answer that for me? send me and email with just (6-8 S) if your that busy. damn!!!! it makes me cranky!!!

                    #390 futuremrsgoodrich

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                      Posted 13 November 2009 - 09:16 AM

                      Stinks doesnt it?!! I mean they already have our money so its not like we have a choice. Our TA has been wonderful and has helped me establish a plan of attack. I am not going to stop squeaking and am going to get everything in writing (since the small amt of info I am getting seems to change).

                      I am sorry for your troubles.... I imagine both of our weddings will be beautiful and no problem.

                      MsMoulton, gosh patience is a virtue, right?? Sounds like you handle it well.




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