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#1581 svetayasofiya

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    Posted 14 January 2010 - 01:09 PM

    I am so pissed at my FI today. He missed his dental appt. this morning because he got a call from work. It's always work! He drops everything for work! It pisses me off so bad because he knows how much I wanted him to go. He hasn't been in over a decade! That is disgusting! Plus with our wedding coming up in 5 weeks I wanted him to have nice shiny teeth but he doesn't give a f*ck. You should have seen how grumpy he was this morning when I reminded him of his appt. and of course I get the brunt of it always. He is a big friggin child who throws a tantrum when he has to do something he doesn't want to do... or better yet! he just doesn't do it. How mature.

    Today is my dress fitting and I am so angry at him I don't even want to go.

    I am just so angry because I just can't count on him for anything sometimes. Adding kids to the mix will be disaster.

    #1582 FutureMsMoulton

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      Posted 14 January 2010 - 01:28 PM

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      Originally Posted by svetayasofiya
      I am so pissed at my FI today. He missed his dental appt. this morning because he got a call from work. It's always work! He drops everything for work! It pisses me off so bad because he knows how much I wanted him to go. He hasn't been in over a decade! That is disgusting! Plus with our wedding coming up in 5 weeks I wanted him to have nice shiny teeth but he doesn't give a f*ck. You should have seen how grumpy he was this morning when I reminded him of his appt. and of course I get the brunt of it always. He is a big friggin child who throws a tantrum when he has to do something he doesn't want to do... or better yet! he just doesn't do it. How mature.

      Today is my dress fitting and I am so angry at him I don't even want to go.

      I am just so angry because I just can't count on him for anything sometimes. Adding kids to the mix will be disaster.
      Go to your dress fitting and get us pics so I can get that image of that hideious one that you threatened to wear out of my head! lol
      Its probably the stress of the wedding starting to wear on you both. Whenever I get frustrated with Justin always working, I stop and remind myself that if he didn't have a job- then we wouldn't be getting married in Mex ico and planning on having kids sometime soon. Put a positive spin on it and you'll feel better!!

      #1583 TonyandTricia

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        Posted 14 January 2010 - 02:21 PM

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        Originally Posted by svetayasofiya
        I am so pissed at my FI today. He missed his dental appt. this morning because he got a call from work. It's always work! He drops everything for work! It pisses me off so bad because he knows how much I wanted him to go. He hasn't been in over a decade! That is disgusting! Plus with our wedding coming up in 5 weeks I wanted him to have nice shiny teeth but he doesn't give a f*ck. You should have seen how grumpy he was this morning when I reminded him of his appt. and of course I get the brunt of it always. He is a big friggin child who throws a tantrum when he has to do something he doesn't want to do... or better yet! he just doesn't do it. How mature.

        Today is my dress fitting and I am so angry at him I don't even want to go.

        I am just so angry because I just can't count on him for anything sometimes. Adding kids to the mix will be disaster.
        Aww..sorry to hear that you are having a bad day. We ALL have them believe me. My FI was driving me crazy yesterday too, but it will all work out. You should go to the fitting to get away. I'm sure putting on that dress will brighten your day.

        Also, I know I'm biased, but you should just try to tell him that he should at least go get a check up to make sure there are no big cavities that could act up while you are in Mexico. It always happens at the most inconvenient times. And I've seen Mexico dental work...it ain't pretty. Does he have fears of the dentist...kind of sounds that way to me...

        #1584 TonyandTricia

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          Posted 14 January 2010 - 02:22 PM

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          Originally Posted by SusieQ

          I think I am down to 13 days before I leave and 18 days to my day in the sun... Lordy Lordy... Oh and the WC sent me an email tonight and she has an appoint booked to meet with us Jan 28th at 9.30am... Yikes
          13 days?!? YAY!!!


          Thanks for the dress comments, ladies.

          #1585 svetayasofiya

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            Posted 14 January 2010 - 03:57 PM

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            Originally Posted by TonyandTricia
            Aww..sorry to hear that you are having a bad day. We ALL have them believe me. My FI was driving me crazy yesterday too, but it will all work out. You should go to the fitting to get away. I'm sure putting on that dress will brighten your day.

            Also, I know I'm biased, but you should just try to tell him that he should at least go get a check up to make sure there are no big cavities that could act up while you are in Mexico. It always happens at the most inconvenient times. And I've seen Mexico dental work...it ain't pretty. Does he have fears of the dentist...kind of sounds that way to me...
            I don't know if it's a fear or just dislike. Whatever. Either way grow up. My dad is a dentist so good oral health is really important to me. The first thing I notice when I meet people is teeth! lol And my FI has really nice teeth. But they won't stay nice if he doesn't take care of them. Up until now he has not had a cavity and he thinks nothing is wrong because he has no pain or discomfort. It's like talking to a brick wall really.

            #1586 shellk

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              Posted 14 January 2010 - 05:59 PM

              well ladies once again we have a book here so if i miss anything im sorry.

              susie,so glad you have had some good news for a change."i hope you ladies have the strength to give up" you are nasty lol.you still have a couple of days to try and get some sleep you dont need it tho you are beautiful as you are.

              erica,we may well bump into each other at the airport lol.

              tricia,great dress.

              breens,i wouldnt ship anything you cant guarantee it getting there.

              chris,hope you day got better and your fitting went well.

              timberley,we obviously have more to do than these lot they spend too much time on here lol.

              brooke,i managed to steal just one paragraph from your vows just thanking our friends for coming with us.

              well i had a very productive evening last night.got the menu done for ahr and got it all costed up.meeting with 2 friends on sat to hand it all over to them lol.i am also going holiday shopping on saturday too.thanks the lord for ebay lol.

              tonight making a list of the music we need on cd,s cause im gonna get that done at work tom hehe.im starting to have constant thorts now yikes.i have 3 weekends left to do things,packing included bring it on.

              #1587 Meyer2010

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                Posted 14 January 2010 - 08:56 PM

                Shell- What time do you fly in to Cancun Airport? We fly continental and get in at 12:50pm. That would be so cool to meet you!!!!


                You guys are scaring the sh!t out of me on the teeth whitening!!! I go in 3 weeks to have my teeth professionally whitened and that is like 3x stronger than the whitening strips/trays. OMG... what am I doing?

                ~ Erica

                #1588 Raykel

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                  Posted 14 January 2010 - 10:49 PM

                  OMG! I am so stressed today for some reason....which is dumb - I know it is all coing together and I don't have much left to do, but I am almost sick with it right now! This is what I want to do...go home and just rock for a little while...with a bottle....wine or cooler...wine or cooler....

                  I tried to log on last night and catch up, but the system was really acting up - so like Shells I am going to be writingin a book!

                  Sofiya - I know it was earlier, but I hope your dress fitting went well! Post some photos as soon as you can! My FI and yours have similar afflictions....then when they have a problem with their teeth, etc they want it dealt with right now and don't understand it does not always work that way! I have started making appointments for him when I have days off and go with him if it is important...then he goes and there are no issues....I figure I get what I want plus we can spend some time together and I guess it is all practise for kids, right?

                  Good for you with the no smoking! That is awesome!

                  Tricia your dress is really pretty....that is something you will be able to wear again too, which is nice.

                  Susie - I feel bad for you with the teeth, or more aptly, your gums! Poor sweetie! I hope those heal fast so you can enjoy your special dinner!

                  I am sorry to hear about Stacey.....but the fact that they want to send her to a specialist in Houston is good, right? That means some people in the know who are really good at what they do are taking care of her. I hope she gets her surgery soon and it all goes well! Keep us posted.

                  Krista...the jewelry is gorgeous! Very elegant.

                  Breens....there are girls on another thread...I read it months ago...their WC in Mexico told them not to ship anything to them at the resort. They said it invariably did not show up. I would say ship some of it out to friends and family and maybe take the rest in a small suitcase you can check. I would hate to get there and stuff be missing. My two cents!

                  FYI...for those of you who were talking about swelling....a friend of mine had a stroke 3 years ago. His wife did tons of research because his one hand was painfully swollen all the time and he started taking apple cider vinegar. The swelling went down right away and now he has no problems...not sure if it will help with travel swelling, but might be worth looking into.

                  Teshy....I love lists. I think that is why I am stressing...my head starts going round and round and if I make lists I feel better. Sick I know, but what do you do? Q: Do you tend to make your lists of things to do way longer than you can get done in one day? You would think I would learn, but I do it all the time...does not bother me if I miss something though, because I just add it to the list for the next day! LOL....told you...sick!

                  Okay....hopefully this works today!

                  #1589 svetayasofiya

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                    Posted 15 January 2010 - 12:20 AM

                    Ok guys... here it is! I hope this isn't bad luck... *holy sharing pictures of me in a wedding dress with the world. lol

                    This is without a flash...
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                    This is with a flash (better quality, but makes the dress shiny! lol)

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                    And this is me just showing off my shoes.........

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                    I have to say... I am really happy with my dress and very pleased with how much all the working out has done! So great to finally see results. Huge change from when I tried the dress on in October. I felt so hippy, lol

                    #1590 svetayasofiya

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                      Posted 15 January 2010 - 12:22 AM

                      I am having a tough time with the jewelery. What do you think of the necklace? I am not loving it... be honest eh? I wore it at my prom in 1992. LOL




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