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I am back.... it is 1.30am in the morning and i had to get a post off to you ladies.... Those of yo that are away I hope you get to read this before your I Do and those of you that haven't left... Listen to me..please....

 

don't worry about the details and how they fall into place... they just do.. Don't fret over who isn't there, celebrate who is. That moment when you put your dress on... Start breathing and take in every moment.... suck it all up and feel it!!!

I honestly absorbed every second of my wedding. from us walking to alter together, each and every step... Mark holding my arm and telling me "this is babe, we're here". Him holding my hands as we exchanged vows and him rubbing my knuckle as he spoke. I remember the sun on my cheek and hearing the roar of the ocean. I could smell the flowers on the table and i could hear my son's breathing and tears behind me. I never once thought about what was missing... Nothing was missing not one detail.. it was perfect. Just take it all in ladies... celebrate that moment and let go of the things you have no control over... You will not miss someone that let you down or disappointed you. Your dress will be perfect and your flowers.... It will all be perfect. Take little steps and enjoy every single second of your day.... Love you gals... nitey nite.... Sue

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Sue - thank you for writing that. It puts everything into perspective. I'm at that point right now and I think it took my grandmother's passing to put me there. I have learned to pick my battles and let the silly ones go. Life can be short and if I keep letting everyone get under my skin I will not be a very happy person and therefore not have a happy marriage/family.

 

Any advice from the ladies who have gone and are back?

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Well ladies, I am a sobbing inconsolable wreck. Due to the snow storm that hit NY I am stranded her until Saturday. I am turning my phone and pc off and crawling into a deep dark hole. I can't take people calling, and calling and calling asking for updates sad.gif. All of this planning and anticipation for THIS!?! I feel devastated. I hope the flight is not canceled on Saturday, I would just die sad.gif.

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Well ladies, I am a sobbing inconsolable wreck. Due to the snow storm that hit NY I am stranded her until Saturday. I am turning my phone and pc off and crawling into a deep dark hole. I can't take people calling, and calling and calling asking for updates sad.gif. All of this planning and anticipation for THIS!?! I feel devastated. I hope the flight is not canceled on Saturday, I would just die sad.gif.

It is all going to work out Timmberly... it just will... sending you tons of love and hugs.... Keep the chin up...muscle.gif

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OMIGOD Vday bride....................................... I don't even know what to say. I really hope it all works out. I am sending good vibes down your way. We are not that far so I hope you feel it. ((((((hugs))))))))

 

SusieQ- Thx for your post... you gave me chills. xo

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Oh my gosh, VDayBride! I feel so terrible for you. I hoping and praying that the snow clears and you can get out on Saturday!!! All of your wonderful and detailed planning will not go to waste.

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Timberley! I am here in NYC too and I am so sorry to hear about your flight delay. Maybe the airlines can work something out for you since you are getting married. Keep trying, I know some people that have pushed their way through when the going gets tough in these weather/airline back ups! Don't give up, and don't let your head down, it's going to work out...Wishing you the best of luck!

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Chris- I replied to your personal message, but I can't tell if it went through or not?!?!? Please, please, please, feel free to email me at srs441@nyu.edu...

 

Hope things are going well! I hope to get to meet you at the Barcelo :)

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So I bought some frame charms and I'm putting both of my grandmas pictures in them and tying them to my bouquet. I'm also going to do one for my FI of his poppa with this poem (let me know what you think).

 

On this day of marriage

He is watching from above,

Along with our guests

He is witnessing our love.

 

Pin him in your pocket

Closest to your heart,

He will keep you calm

Whenever we’re apart.

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