Originally Posted by EmilyT
Hi everyone, I have been absent from here for a little while and am trying to catch up but i need opinions.. my fiance and I feel differently about when we should actually get married since we are doing the symbolic ceremony at dreams on 2.22.13...
I feel we should get married before so that when we are there with our friends and family we are celebrating the marriage (that already took place)..
He feels we should do it right after because if we are already married what is the sense in the whole walking down the isle, exchanging vows thing if in fact we are already husband and wife. He feels we can just come back and sign the papers but the symbolic ceremony is our wedding and we are considered married after it.. but i might be dissapointed when i realize the next day we are actually still not really married LOL
I NEED OPINIONS!!!! thank you!!
We got married the day before we left at the courthouse. We just thought of it as doing the paperwork before we left lol. We just went in street chothes and didnt make any fuss about it. We also didn't tell any of our guests. Good Luck!