In a dilemma - need your opinion!!
Posted 13 August 2009 - 11:08 AM
Posted 13 August 2009 - 02:18 PM
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Posted 14 August 2009 - 01:02 AM
Posted 14 August 2009 - 06:48 AM
Weddings should be about those closest to you - but not who's the most convenient.
to be perfectly honest, I would probably be in EXACTLY the same situation as you as I would have said yes, and then regretted it after!
you don't need her, and she'll have to do without you.
be strong, keep it brief but make it nice and heartfelt lol just to cover yourself!
Posted 14 August 2009 - 01:02 PM
I hope it goes well! Good Luck!
Posted 15 August 2009 - 07:07 AM
| Originally Posted by SSNM |
lol...I told my sister this story and she said she would have mc'ed and wrote a long, comemmorative speech on how blessed they are to be able to pull off a wedding on such short notice given that they sent her invite a mere 3 weeks before the date. I was cracking up! She's bold to ask you to do that, if she asked someone like my sister, she would be so shamed she'd wish she'd eloped!
Posted 15 August 2009 - 12:33 PM
| Originally Posted by hockeymom97 |
If it were me, I'd feel like I was being asked as an after thought - just because of the date of the RSVP on the invitations. That just seems really odd. And then top it off with her asking you to emcee her wedding?! I could be completely wrong, but I would feel like she was asking me just because she doesn't know who else to ask, and that asking me was a last resort type of thing. I wouldn't want to do it either and would probably call her and just tell her that on such short notice I unfortunately can't take on this responsibility.
I completely agree here! I would feel the same way. When I was reading the story, I was like, wait a minute - I'm your second choice and you didn't even want me as a guest?
Posted 15 August 2009 - 07:33 PM
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