How is everyone already busy a year away?
Posted 06 August 2009 - 01:03 PM
Posted 07 August 2009 - 08:38 PM
| Originally Posted by Sloan |
People will still flake out on your DW even if you gave them 10 years in advance. Do what you and FI want and if people really want to go and they can, they will. I'd still be trying to figure out what month/day/year to get hitched if I listened to my friends/family. Just my two cents.
Do your best to pick a date to make as many of the most important people happy as you can and go for it...or worse case scenrio - pick a date and if it is important enough to them, they will find a way to be there. If you try to make too many people happy, you will only make yourself and your FI miserable.
Posted 17 August 2009 - 05:54 AM
my auty - "but if your cousin goes to uni, that could be his exam period"
his uncle - if the team i coach made the footy finals, thats in footy season"
ARE YOU KIDDING ME??!!
Posted 21 August 2009 - 07:43 AM
Posted 21 August 2009 - 03:04 PM
Posted 28 August 2009 - 03:49 PM
| Originally Posted by Love3 |
I totally agree SLOAN!!! Just pick what works for you. We gave people 4mths notice lol. Not for any specific reason other then we were looking for 3mths prior to the 4mths for a resort!!! We also didn't care who came other then us, so we had the attitude of whoever comes great, if not pis* on you lol kidding we are more then o.k with us just being there, but the more choices and ownership you give ppl the more they take and the more problems they bring!!
I say do what you want and let them fall in or out. People will make time for the things that they want regardless of what else is going on in their lives.
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