Question for anyone doing the legal part at home
Posted 06 November 2009 - 05:06 PM
I think that if you explain to your (nasty) guests that your wedding in mexico is the one that you intended to have the most meaning for yourselves and for your guests with, and that the ceremony at home is more about getting the paperwork out of the way then maybe they'll understand a little better. Maybe you could also mention that if you were sticking with just the intimate ceremony here, then they might not have even received any invite at all so they should be thankful to go to Cuba with you!
Try not to let their comments get to you because really, it isn't their decision as to who you invite to ANY part of your wedding. If they feel that inconvenienced then maybe they should look into transferring their trip to someone who would be much more happy to celebrate with you!
Posted 06 November 2009 - 06:21 PM
Funny thing is that I actually wish right now that they wouldn't come - I really hate to have someone there knowing that they would rather not be.
Posted 06 November 2009 - 06:25 PM
Posted 06 November 2009 - 06:26 PM
| Originally Posted by Ms325i |
We are having a secret legal cermony within the next few months at city hall and then planning a symbolic destination wedding for early 2010. Because we live in different countries FI(American) we want to get the immigration process started now--instead of waiting until after our wedding. For the legal city hall wedding it will just be the two of us.
Posted 06 November 2009 - 09:35 PM
Posted 09 November 2009 - 12:51 PM
| Originally Posted by HereFishie |
Thanks for the info on that echo. We're still going to do the legal part here... we're fine with using a marriage commissioner if need be. Sure would be easier to go to the courthouse though!
Posted 09 November 2009 - 07:39 PM
Posted 09 November 2009 - 09:07 PM
Posted 15 November 2009 - 11:04 PM
Posted 16 November 2009 - 12:35 AM
But I think no matter what you do people will complain beforehand and they rave about it after. It seems to be a theme. But it is hard not to let it get to you.
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