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#41 vdaybride

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    Posted 21 February 2010 - 11:59 PM

    We gave our rings to our BM and Maid of honor. Funny thing is I kept saying in my head put your ering on your right ring finger.. but so much going on I still had my ering on my finger when he tried to put the band on so I quickly slipped it off and acted like nothing happened lol. I would say put it on the right finger at some point in the day preferably before your FI tries to put your band on :)
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    #42 LynnieS

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      Posted 22 February 2010 - 12:27 AM

      Geez, what a great thread. I hadn't even thought about this.
      yay. . . we're gradu-umtaded!!!

      #43 carolina24

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        Posted 22 February 2010 - 04:15 AM

        Originally Posted by KPEG
        I like this idea. Thanks! My right finger is a lot bigger than my left. It won't even fit over my knuckle. Hmm, time to think of where to keep the e-ring before this.
        we're doing the ering ceremony as well, i loved this idea when i saw it on the ceremony thread!!

        i'm giving both of our rings and my ering to our ring bearer. she is my cousin who is 13 so i'm not worried about them getting lost. i'll give them to her right before we all walk out and they'll be tied down to the shell somehow

        #44 KGraham27

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          Posted 22 February 2010 - 05:55 PM

          I'm glad someone asked this question. I never even thought of it before.

          #45 torywedd

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            Posted 22 February 2010 - 10:07 PM

            glad u ladies know.....i had no freakin' idea what 2 do with my bands, since i will have 2....i think i might wear my e-ring on my right finger, and after the ceremont just put it in between both bands...thanx ladies

            #46 aimee!

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              Posted 22 February 2010 - 10:32 PM

              we had an engagement ring part of our ceremony, so we exchanged rings, and then he put the e-ring over my wedding band.

              i was so busy that day that i totally forgot to take off my e-ring earlier, so when the minister asked for the rings, i quickly took off my e-ring & added it to the other 2 (that were in ted's pocket before-hand). lol! hopefully nobody was watching too closely. :)

              here's part of our ceremony:

              Aimee, take this ring, and as you place it on Theodore’s finger, repeat after me:

              Bride: This ring I give you, as a token of my devotion and love, and with my heart, I pledge to you all that I am. With this ring I marry you again, and continue to join my life to yours.

              The engagement ring is a symbol of promise and intention. Now the intention is realized and the promise fulfilled. Theodore, place the engagement ring on Aimee’s finger over her wedding band to symbolize the love that brought you together.
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              #47 Nerds In Love

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                Posted 29 January 2012 - 10:21 AM

                Boy am I glad for this thread. It was my intention to give all rings to the best man and call it a day....

                #48 joda

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                  Posted 31 January 2012 - 06:33 PM

                  I have never heard of this ering ceremony, I will have to look into it!

                  #49 JayKay

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                  Posted 01 February 2012 - 04:15 PM

                  I gave my rings (wedding band, and ering) to my mom, who then delivered it to the room where my husband and best man were getting ready.  The best man had all of them so when the minister asked for them he presented them.  We also did the ering reading in our wedding ceremony.

                  #50 FadingJamie

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                    Posted 02 February 2012 - 01:35 PM

                    My fiance's brother had a part in the ceremony that said something like, "Now take the engagement ring and slide it onto her ring finger to remind the two of you of the promises you made to each other for your marriage when it was first given."


                    Something like that.  I just thought it was really cool.  Kind of using the engagement promises to seal/protect the marriage.

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