Oldest Friend Won't Come - Need to Vent
Posted 08 July 2009 - 09:36 AM
I'm just really sad because I've known her forever and always thought she'd be at my wedding. When I told her it would be a DW, she said cool, just tell her when and where.
I guess mostly I feel like she doesn't want to be inconvenienced at this point. She's been married for 5 years and most of her college friends are married as well. It just breaks my heart because I want her there. And also a little frustrated b/c when she got married 5 years ago, I came to everything she invited me to around her wedding. I didn't have to travel far, only about a 4 hour drive, but I did have to take off work and also attended about 4 other wedding events for her throughout the year!
I still have tons of good friends coming and I should focus on that, but this is the first cancellation I've gotten from someone I thought for sure would be there!
I guess it's true what they say that the people who you thought for sure won't come and then other people will surprise you and show up!
Posted 08 July 2009 - 09:56 AM
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Posted 08 July 2009 - 11:07 AM
So, I'm in the process of reinvisioning. Until I was getting married myself, I never realized why weddings strengtened/ended so many friendships. I get it now, people tend to show their true colors during the stressful time.
My thoughts are with you and I hope she changes her mind, but if she doesn't, I have no doubt it will be gorgeous and perfect and everything you hoped it would be.
Um, and as for the bitter spinster, itsfinallyhere....WOW. If the truth were that ridiculous, you would think she would be able to make up an excuse better than that? It would take all my willpower not to rub my relationship happiness in this friends face.....then again, I'm probably not the model of forgiveness either
Posted 08 July 2009 - 11:14 AM
good luck and hopefully you don't have any more cancellations!
Posted 08 July 2009 - 11:18 AM
| Originally Posted by itsfinallyhere |
Although yours has a better excuse, mine won't go because she is not getting married first! She actually told me that she cannot go because she promised herself that the next trip would be for her wedding and she therefore cannot go to mine because she will not be married by then! Yup totally sicks, but what are you going to do.
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