When did you know he was the one?

[sarafish81]

For me, it wasn't really one moment, but a series of moments. I knew that DH was the one for me when he was ok with me being me...sounds stupid but for a few years before we met, I kept trying to fit into a mold to be with the guys that I dated, and I felt like something was inherently wrong with me when I just didn't fit! Early on in our relationship, DH invited me over to his place and made me a "no-reason cake" - we decorated it with all this crazy icing and gummy bears, lit some candles and took some pictures. It was so goofy but we still do it now every once in awhile! Also early on, I had a health scare and was pretty shook up. He called me and asked me to get dressed up for dinner as he was taking me to the Calgary Tower. I'd never been there and was really excited. As we were sitting there in the revolving restaurant, we just looked into each other's eyes and all of a sudden he said "aww! You are going to fall in love with me!!" And I totally did Sounds cheesy but it was totally a moment where I was like, "yup buddy, hook, line and sinker!"

[LesleyAnne]

My husband of 21 years had passed away from brain cancer, and I was devastated. I decided after 18 months of caring for him, and making it through a huge funeral that I was going to travel and date casually. I needed to find myself again. For the first time since I was 17, I was not looking for love at all. I went on a dating web site, and my arranged to meet Jeff at a nice restaurant near my house. He pulled up in his 1988 black Mercedes with screechy brakes, hopped out with the cutest smile on his face, and handed me a bouquet of flowers. I saw that dimple in his left cheek, and within 15 seconds I was almost in love. During dinner I sat on his left side, and the dimple worked its magic, and I was totally in love. It was love at first sight. I fought it for months, then I finally confessed one night that I loved his dimple...I mean him. He fell in love with me a little more slowly. Ironic that he was looking for love after being divorced for 2 years, and I was running away from it, and I was the one that fell first.

[waltandjean]

Hmm.. such a good question... I could tell after a couple of weeks that he was different... and after about 3 months I pretty much knew.. I never met someone who could make me feel so special and loved...

[florida]

This section of the forum is really fun to read . . .

 

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[**~Linda~**]

He laughed at my blunt sarcasm! LMAO and followed with it! He could dish it and take it at the same time! Its a match made in funnyville and come backs! lol!!

[soontobemrsdow]

We dated for a short time and broke up because we lived so far away from each other. I started dating someone else a few months later and right away felt like everything was wrong with the realtionship and it just wasn't the same as it was when I was with Randy. We got back together a few weeks later and everything was perfect as if we had been together forever. I knew he was meant to be mine forever!

[Loveisintheair]

I knew he was the one after our second date which the evening after our first date. We went bowling and I won two out of three. When we got back to the car he had already written out a car say wow what a bowler..thanks for the great time. I knew there was something special about this guy