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I am so sad today

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#1 josee

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    Posted 02 July 2009 - 03:52 PM

    I am sad and at the same time kind of frustraded. My dad who was the fist to tell me he was coming to my wedding and would't miss it for anything just cancelled his trip today. He said that he doesn't feel good, that he is afraid of dying if he comes, that he feels like he can't fly so far away (from Canada to Jamaica, about a 5 hours flight). At fist I understood, but then I talked to his girlfriend who said that he is not sick at all, that he went to see the doctor and that everything is just fine with him. So why cancel then? I have a big family 4 brothers and 3 sisters. Only one is coming to my wedding. I knew that not everyone would be able to come, but I never thought that only one would come! I feel like my wedding, my plans and even I are important to them at all. I know that it is irrational to think like this but I just can't help it... I am so sad.

    #2 NYCBridetoBe1909

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      Posted 02 July 2009 - 04:02 PM

      Josee, I am so sorry that you're going through this. Maybe he will be able to attend the at home reception or something like that?

      #3 CrystalM

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        Posted 02 July 2009 - 04:06 PM

        I don't really have any advise but that really sucks and
        I have a fabulous photographer I can share in the United States Virgin Islands in late April/early MayP.M. if interested!http://img.weddingco....pvbh7hxc5u.png

        #4 The Mandy in Chandy

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          Posted 02 July 2009 - 04:08 PM

          oh, josee! I am so sorry to hear about this. People can be very selfish and self-absorbed sometimes even when they love someone very much. It's a hard thing to be selfless.

          I hope he comes around and decides to go!

          #5 silverangel

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            Posted 02 July 2009 - 04:15 PM

            I don't even know what to say...I would be devasted...I really hope he changes his mind. And if not, be strong and have the wedding of your dreams with or without their support :)

            #6 ~Nicole~

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              Posted 02 July 2009 - 04:32 PM

              Josee stay strong!! It's ok to feel sad and I know it hurts, as I have felt less than important by some of my friends and family, but try to focus on the positive - those who will be there :).
              And, some people might surprise you. I'm finding a lot of unecessary drama that has been going on sometimes just ends when it gets down to the wire. I really hope everything works out for you!
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              #7 zethers

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                Posted 02 July 2009 - 04:33 PM

                Awww Josee, so sorry you are going through this. I too would be devasted. As important as your family is to you remember the most important person will be standing right next to you!

                I hope you feel better soon and things work out!

                #8 jk1101

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                  Posted 02 July 2009 - 05:34 PM

                  Josee, I'm so sorry that this is happening to you. You still have some time. Maybe he will change his mind? Sending good thoughts.


                  #9 NaM

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                    Posted 02 July 2009 - 05:50 PM

                    Don't really know what to say, that is a sad situation and I wish you weren't going through it. Sending good thoughts your way and hope everything works out for ya!!!

                    PS-you could always take a the money from the wedding and take a FABULOUS vacation and elope make everyone jealous that they missed out

                    #10 stefnicole

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                      Posted 02 July 2009 - 08:21 PM

                      I'm so sorry! HUGS!

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