Posted 18 June 2009 - 04:59 PM
My plan and hope is that the wedding is limited to 4 other couples. His parents, my parents, his best friend and wife and my best friend and her long term boyfriend.
That being said, is there anything wrong with not sending invitations and save the dates? These 8 people obviously already know when and where the wedding is, it just seems unnecessary. Am I missing something?
Posted 18 June 2009 - 06:23 PM
Are you planning to send annocements to all friends and family to let them know you tied the knot? That is an option to let everyone know when you were married.
Just my thoughts.
Posted 18 June 2009 - 06:44 PM
Posted 18 June 2009 - 07:28 PM
As for sending the invites to the 4 couples, I think that is totally up to you. If they have all of the information that they need an invite seems like something that is completely optional.
Posted 18 June 2009 - 07:42 PM
First of all, your true friends and close family love you no matter what. I know about weight gain, since I too feel self conscious about it. But you know what? This is where we are right now. Stressing over it or not feeling good about is not doing you any good! Love yourself darlin' everything else will fall into place.
As for the invites, this is your wedding and your (and FI's day) you could or not do anything your heart desires. The one thing you must remember is, enjoy it 'cause it only happens once!
Posted 18 June 2009 - 08:02 PM
But, do you think that you may regret not having an invite to save as a keepsake to maybe put with your photos?
Posted 18 June 2009 - 08:37 PM
Are you planning on having an AHR celebrating your marriage when you get back? If so, this would be a good time to send out invites to those who couldn't make the wedding. Since we are also missing out on the invites aspect for our wedding (it's just FI and I) we are going to step it up a notch and send out invites for our AHR. An option for you...
Posted 19 June 2009 - 12:15 AM
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